What kind of "intricacies" would they be? 🤔
It takes time to learn the actual dynamics of people, what their intentions are, what informs how they behave within the site. I'm just saying it's not as simple as the obvious. Depending on the conversation you're engaged in and the people in it some very contradictory and contrasting point of view.
And what are the actual dynamics of a fully-grown man who pays a woman $80 to give them a hug, who also definitely 100% does not want anything "more" than just a hug?
You will have to decide that for yourself. Over time you will paint your own view.
Yes yes, men bad, etc
The […] are coming out z_Z
Reported by a member of the community. Removed a word as it is a misuse of the word and name-calling. [CharlieBear]
Yeah I haven't met anyone yet either. Like a user stated earlier, more out of state people viewing my profile but in my case they are all cuddlers/professionals lol not people looking for cuddling.
@night_songs Even though the site owner is in England and this is technically an English site if I had to guess id say 80 percent of users are likely US, so I'm not sure how active your area is likely going to be
@night_songs Some people are fine with (and even prefer) the transactional nature of pro cuddles. They enjoy the line created where there is less of a chance of an emotional attachment created between the pro and the client. Platonic cuddling is amazing and cuddling pros can be more fulfilling for some if they prefer receiving cuddles more than giving. It’s usually quite a different experience unless you are cuddling with seasoned enthusiasts.
The site is fairly active here in the U.S. I have to travel a decent distance for most of my sessions (or they have to travel out my way). It can be a bit of a bear finding local, consistent cuddles. I’ve gotten a few within 30 minutes of me from where I am now in New England, but it really is hit or miss.
@night_songs you go at your own pace and set your own boundaries on top of the site’s TOS. You mentioned you’ve cuddled before, so just do what feels right for you. It doesn’t matter whether you’re an enthusiast or a pro, you only do what you feel comfortable with doing. When I first started (as an enthusiast), I had no idea of what this whole “platonic” concept was really about. I took time to read the forum threads, (it’s an encyclopedia 😂 ) Also, I asked some of people that messaged and surprisingly their responses matched, they all seemed to want the same as me, true platonic, non sexual human touch. The ones that weren’t on the same page moved on.
Every person is different. Just have strong boundaries, be clear, keep conversations on site, always! Have a safety system in place. And always trust your gut!!!
Oh, and those that ask for sexual or non platonic services, report them to the Mods, that’s the only way to keep them out. Believe me when I say there’re a lot of men wanting to do real platonic cuddling, you just have to be willing to weed out the many that don’t. Especially for enthusiasts women!!. Hope you get to stay and find a good cuddle buddy. Feel free to send me a DM if you have any questions.