Cuddling giver or cuddling receiver

Are you a cuddler that likes to receive cuddles or to give ir initiate? We might be both during the session too.

During virtual greet you get to hear expectations etc but who will take the lead when in person? I am curious as a new cuddler who wants to understand the culture here 🤗🤗

LiLKnotz

Both

TxTom

You just asked this question in your other thread here:

https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/22006/curious-to-know#latest

LadyVel

As @TxTom said, you already posted this once in the general thread.

Please don't spam the forum with the same topic multiple times.

It wasn’t my intention to post twice

GuyverGordon

lovingspoonfull

Could you clarify your question? I don’t understand the distinction you’re making. Cuddling is either mutual or not at all? It’s not a passive receive or active give like a massage.

Carrie_Anne

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LadyVel

@lovingspoonfull they are basically asking if you like to just give cuddles, recieve cuddles, or both.
I've had sessions where the person I was cuddling was almost 100% recieving. I cuddled them, was the big spoon, had their head on my lap and played with their hair, rubbed their shoulders, etc and they didn't really cuddle me back.

I prefer 50/50 cuddles where we are both actively cuddling but as a pro, I know that is not always going to the the case for me and that's fine. I want to make those I cuddle comfortable, relaxed, and feel cared for.

lovingspoonfull

@LadyVel i can see that, thanks for the example.

And I agree, the mutual and active cuddle is preferable. I’m not comfortable being solely a receiver. I enjoy giving too.