Has anyone used this platform to form a more meaningful lasting relationship?
I was hoping to find someone that I could get to know on a deeper level 🤷🏼♀️
Yes, in fact there are at least two people who found thier spouse through this community
I'm sure it happens, but it's not a dating site.
I didn't actually meet them here, but several of my closest friends are people on this site. Somebody I did meet here came on holiday with me, and we had a lovely time.
I like making friends on here. Alas, they tend to be far away.
I'm sure there has been, but for Myself...Nah! 😊
Platonic is okeydoke with me! 👍
If by relationship you mean friendship, then that is totally fine with me. I need to know a little bit about and and at least like the person I'm cuddling with.
But I am not here to find a romantic relationship partner.
I have some folks I've connected with who will likely be life long friends, thankfully some of them near enough to me but @IronLemon I hear you on some of them just being so so far away 🙁.
And then there are other cuddlers where that's kind of the only dynamic we share, we cuddle, and it's awesome. 😁
I have made some amazing friends here that go beyond being cuddle friends. Also tons of acquaintances who may not be close with but still consider friendly terms. Certainly have been a lot of fair weather friends and ones who I thought we were close who end up ghosting , and some being a touch unstable. But for the handful of amazing long.term peeps I've met it's worth it.
@pmvines just a touch unstable? This is why I 🤪 you
Happens all the time.
I met myself on here. It’s a rollercoaster of a relationship with a lot of nausea inducing turns and flips. But the worst was when I ghosted myself because I was being an asshole. I am back on good terms but I need to earn my trust back.
@TheFunCartel , hilarious! Thank you I needed a good laugh today.
@pmvines who you calling unstable?! Oh right...
@TheFunCartel I hate it when I'm being an asshole. I'm the absolute worst. 😂
@Mauve23 @biancalovecraft
Nah! Y'all are most certainly in my awesome peeps category, despite geography being an asshole
And... OP is gone. Got ejected from the fun roller coaster, apparently. (Aka banned) lol.
Yep, OP is gone indeed...😏
@pmvines I fully accept being an awesome and an unstable peep for you, my friend.😁🫂
@Katota
Ah, yes . You are many things indeed 😂
Just a reminder that this is not a dating site. Connections do get made sometimes that turn into a relationship, but anyone using the site to date will be removed from the site.
Edit: I see OP was banned (I posted this before I saw and that was not my doing)
Honestly, I don’t think the OP was necessarily looking for anything romantic. I get that platforms have to draw lines, but it’s a little disheartening that even mentioning a desire for a ‘deeper connection’ is instantly flagged as ban-worthy. There should be space for meaningful, non-romantic interactions just like others have stated with making lasting friendships.
I don’t think OP deserved a ban. It was a pretty simple question. Sure it’s mostly pros meeting guys, so respect that boundary and the nature of that transaction for lack of a better word, but there are also non-pros meeting each other and if there is a connection then there is a connection, there is nothing wrong with that.
You have no idea of why she was banned. If it had been about seeking a deeper relationship, she probably would have just been warned. Could just as easily be she was a previously banned member, tried to charge, or violated TOS in some other way.
@GuyverGordon Nice! 🙂
@pmvines
I click for the topic. But I stay to learn about friendship goals from @Katota and @pmvines. 🤣🥰
I have met two individuals from this site that I consider myself friends with now. Because of that we no longer cuddle though.
I have met individuals who have told me they treat it like a dating site and for me that’s a super big red flag. It always amazes me that people assume because I’m a pro that I must single and that I would entertain a relationship. They couldn’t be more wrong on both fronts.
But I am very happy with the new friends I made from cuddle comfort 🤗 but don’t like when people use it for romantic relationships and blind side you.
@WarmEmbraceNat Report them.
@WriterGF I have. Two individuals who you would see on a 60 minute special.
@Katota awesome Pic! 😍 Absolutely love all the humor. Not sure who OP was though. But yeah I can see how some connections can turn into something more. Congrats to those that have. I'm grateful to have met some really amazing people on here who I can now call friends! On another note, it makes me really unconformtable when I sense that someones using it for that reason. I mean we're all human and anything can happen at any time, but for someone to have those expectations up front even after reading the terms of the site is beyond me.