Anyone have a go to ice breaker when either meeting your cuddler or when yall first lay down to cuddle?
Openings should be organic, so be yourself. Start with thank you so much for seeing me so your partner feels appreciated.
I like to start with a cup of tea. Even just a cup of tea can have surprising associations for starting conversations. And after all, sharing tea with a fascinating stranger is one of life's true delights.
@IronLemon tea time, best time
I like to begin with taking some deep slow breaths together
Needing to break ice at the beginning of the actual session is already a setback. Ideally, it is taken care of prior to the meet just via chatting and getting to know each other.
I’m in agreement with @TheFunCartel and @Sooson .
Be natural; no reason formatted or awkwardness. Focus on the fact you’re truly interested in getting to know your potential cuddle partner, and the cuddling is just a bonus. let the conversation flow.
And @GuyverGordon when I saw the thread title I knew you’d be on it. 😎 My guess would have been someone using a sledgehammer on an ice sculpture!
How much does a polar bear weigh? Enough to break the ice, I hope! 😝
I like to share a hand massage with really nice lotion. I can sense someone's tension level and work on that directly. Then, we both have extra soft hands for the remainder of the cuddle session! I also have a few seated cuddle positions which are good ice breakers with someone cuddling for the first time.
I’m very comfortable in my own skin so I never really need an ice breaker per se’, but a really nice, organic intro hug always seems to set the stage just right.
I find that the warmth of my personality melts any ice present.
Joking aside, I'm genuinely pleased to meet a new cuddler and it shows. I think they helps a lot. I'm also blessed with a certain amount of social confidence - if you fake it for long enough it becomes real - and that helps too. My relaxed-ness helps the other person relax.
😄 ... I almost aimed for something close to the beginning of Frozen (with the group working on the ice ... is there a name for them?). But then I found this one with the pool and thought it was good enough 😁
"Your picture did you no justice!" << Which has, wonderfully, been my experience, so far!
Depends on if it’s in person or online. If online I’ll do a pre conversion with the person to get a better feel of them. It helps with figuring out the route I want to take the session. Most of them usually starts with a breathing exercise and a stretch before going into conversation.
😄 ... I almost aimed for something close to the beginning of Frozen
@GuyverGordon Eh, I prefer this version myself...🥶🥶🥶
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Besides, she is riding a badass CGI polar tiger/bear...I think?🤔😆
She had ONE LAW, but in the end she broke that herself ☺️
She ended up defending "her children" (against Ravenna) YES that she kidnapped and (definitely 😁👍) traumatized into her "Elite Huntsman Army" because in her twisted way of grief, rage and anger she herself still loved them in a maternal fashion. Freya, was a mother herself once.🥶❤️🥶❤️🥶❤️
I feel a hug right upon entering the door is a great ice breaker!
Address the elephant in the room: This is not my ankle bracelet.
@WestsideMarc 👀
"You ever been cuddle mugged?" "Wanna see a dead body?" And "Can you operate a M3201 out of a moving vehicle?" Are always classic conversation starters