Do people actually cuddle on here?

timeistimeis
in Cuddle Requests

I feel like I’m making myself feel lonelier because I don’t feel comfortable asking a person in the real world for a cuddle, hangout, whatever. It feels the same on here. It’s like I’m just feeding into the person I don’t want to be for the momentary dopamine of connecting with a human person. Am I making sense?

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  • MTexMTex

    Yes, we do. As an enthusiast it takes time to get to know a potential partner. There are threads about how to connect with others wether you want to cuddle with a pro or a fellow enthusiast. Chatting on the forum & via messaging is a great way to connect with other members. I hope you get to cuddle too.

  • SunsetSnugglesSunsetSnuggles

    @timeis
    You could think of this as a relatively "safer" place to practice your people skills, which you can build up in this environment where everyone knows why we're here... Then take those skills "into the wild" and try them with people outside of this circle.

    Becoming part of the cuddle community has inadvertently given me a chance to engage and become much more outgoing and confident in person than I ever was, before.

    I would highly recommend seeking a group cuddle on MeetUp, EventBrite, etc. where they facilitate learning about boundaries, consent, approaching others, etc.

    It sounds like you're here for the right reasons and I think you're great for this community. 😊

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

    🫂 Enthusiast 🐄 Vegan 🫧 Kid at Heart

  • chococuddler60chococuddler60

    I have met a very nice person on here. We have had two cuddle sessions already. We met in public, got to know each other. Then cuddled in public also. Then when comfortable, you can move to a more private setting, just as long as you know the boundaries of what is permitted and what is not.

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