@TheFunCartel I agree with what you said about your daughter but when my Daughter brings a new boy over, I am sure to show him my guns.
[NOPE. No threats of violence on CC, @Morpheus .-Sid]
@Runawaycuddles That's helpful, turning the question inside out as it were - signs that someone isn't legit are hard to recognise, but signs that someone is legit are easy to spot. Thanks. From now on I'll turn contacts inside out.
It's a wrap. Locking up this flaming heap of a thread of at least a dozen reports. Apologies to the OP for the inability to stay on topic.