do I need to elaborate on the lego thing? cuz I've talked about my situation with this person in here before, but the lego didn't come up till a few weeks of regular cuddling on a consistent basis. I'd been pitching ideas for other things to try at activity wise besides bedroom cuddling. idk if it's weird, hutbi really do all this to get a hug and hopefully someone brush my hair for me. hard to explain it besides a sensory thing. it's enormously relaxing and reduces any anxiety to 0. it literally will unlock all my chakras in a few minutes. I'll ask about it before people even come. noone else has brought stuff much.
a year ago, there was someone who would come for a few days at a time. sometimes he'd bring like alcohol or whatever he wanted while here. he almost felt like a part of our family, and I got him some Christmas gifts which he never came and got. tbh he hasn't been back. he's still in my discord server, and on my discord FL. I talked to him recently.
I do feel my experiences as an enthusiast have been wild and varied. one time someone just wanted to rub my feet, so I let him cuz that seemed harmless. I happen to have lots of foot care stuff as I did lots of foot care for my ex.
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@WestsideMarc I like your tips! I appreciate thoughtful gestures — I see gift-giving as something simple yet meaningful. If more was like this I might definitely be open to connecting with other enthusiasts.