RV Cuddling?

sagantyson

I travel a ton (driving) for work and am considering using my RV once spring rolls around. As a female enthusiast, it seems like this might be a reasonably safe place to meet, if I'm at a campground where there are other people around. For sure screams would be heard. Has anyone done this? Any thoughts or ideas, positive or negative, are welcome!

Cozette_Comfy

Could be cool. Better scenery and fresh air.

cuddlefaery

I'm saying this not to overly alarm you, but perhaps give you some things to consider:

The point of safety protocols is to prevent ever getting to the point that your screams would need to be heard. Inviting strangers to your home, especially if traveling in an unfamiliar place, is incredibly risky. Many, if not most, pros would never get in a car with a new client - you'd be inviting a stranger into your vehicle that also happens to be your home. Getting into a stranger's car while in a strange place is one of the largest risks in human trafficking.

People usually do not know how they will respond to attacks until it happens. You might freeze, they may have a weapon or other way to keep you from screaming. Also, you may be in a place with people around, but what's to stop them from forcing you to drive to another location?

If you decide to go through with this, your vetting process needs to be extensive - you need to be absolutely sure that the person you're inviting to your mobile home is low risk. The vetting process can also discourage potential bad actors from scheduling in the first place by making it clear how difficult it would be to get away with anything. Have a safety buddy who has the person's full legal name and picture, and make sure the person knows you have someone waiting to hear back from you. Try to have a neighbor that is aware you're having someone over, so they know to watch for anything suspicious. If the campground has a gate person or any other sort of security, make sure your potential cuddle partner knows. If your RV has security cameras or any other security features, make sure they know but don't give specifics that would allow them to disable the security. If you have a personal protection device (stun gun, pepper spray, etc.), that you DON'T tell them - you keep it hidden within easy reach at all times so they can't use it against you.

It may seem excessive most of the time, but the name of the game is prevention, not just reaction. It's not impossible to enjoy cuddles in an RV as a woman, but you want to be extra thoughtful in how you go about it.

waynewv

I think as a female you may find it will work out. But like a few have commented just be safe and I would look at there Krama. As a male I have found that females seem to feel very unsafe, even Pro’s have turned me down. Of course it may be my age, not 100% sure but it seems that way. I’m open to anyone that likes to cuddle and have found guys have no problems with the RV. I like to take road trips with my RV and will reach out in advance to areas that I will be traveling thru to try to find a cuddler.
I hope it works out for you.

sr182

Great option!! I love a pleasant camp area and the scenic vibe associated. I feel like any location has similar reward and risk. I’ve met for RV cuddle before. I would again. I’m fortunate. If I was in your area I would certainly enjoy meeting you and sharing cuddle.

When you RV, do you also have second vehicle to possible meet away for a public first? I think a public meet is often a good thing regardless.

Cuddlesofcuddle

That sounds amazing! I would love to do this myself. Of course be safe and if you find yourself close to San Antonio lmk 🤗

MrGingerSpice07

I know of someone who does this and it’s working very well for her. The locations are very intentionally selected for both amazing scenery and the presence of other people in reasonable proximity. I don’t think she ever closes the doors, which helps for enjoying scenery as well as safety. It‘s a winning recipe so far.

CuddleDuncan

This is a Thing, although only a very few people do it.

Use google to search the forums thoroughly, there have been some posts about this in the past.

Renee420510

Love the idea 💡

Connecticut1977

I have cuddled inside of a RV. I found it to be cool.

greggerz

I think it's an awesome idea!

Teacuphugger

I have been considering this too! Thank You to everyone sharing feedback, it's very helpful!

cuddlefaery

I sound like a wet blanket 😅 I swear I'm far less serious in person. I just worry about people taking risks 😕

TheFunCartel

Something about “living in a van down by the river” type of feeling that I fail to find enticing.

notinarush

I travel all around the midwest with my toyhauler. I have had the privilege of hosting quite a few pros and enthusiasts in my rv. I was even able to rig up a deal so that we could cuddle in a hammock. My dog and cat come with me. Cuddling in the rv rocks!!!
My advice: have a four legged furry animal that wants to protect you.

sagantyson

I understand @cuddlefaery! Safety is definitely important. My RV is for recreation only, so it’s not my home. And the good thing is that I could leave that site if I felt unsafe. The idea of someone being able to force me to drive to a new location isn’t too much of a risk if I have the RV hooked up to water and electricity. It would be a process to get it to a drivable state.

Violetblanket

I cuddle in my van and love it!

Huggycatbear

For my birthday, I cuddled with a pro in her travel van. We rented a spot by the beach and even though her city is known for having great sunny weather all year long, it rained that day 😄

But it was still a cozy experience. Obviously company matters most but it's so amazing to be able to pick your view.

The RV is a great idea, especially being at a campsite that still works as a shared space with the public.