Where cuddling is and isn't embraced

wedgewoodwedgewood
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In my relatively short time on the site, I've noticed that when it comes to finding pros to cuddle with, it's somewhat feast or famine depending on where you're looking. For example, in LA, there are a ton of people to cuddle with. But in NY, it seems like there's a much smaller group. I imagine that cuddling is much more widely accepted on the West Coast than the East. It wouldn't be a surprise if there's a lot less cuddling going on in New England, with its puritanical roots, than other areas in the country. Has anyone looked into this? And I'd love to get the pro perspective on this. Is it easier to get clients on the West Coast than the East? And what's it like in your area of the country?

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  • mellowmellow

    I am in the Miami area and there are a few pros around that log in regularly that I can see. I messaged a pro about a month ago and didn’t receive a response from her.
    I have also messaged a few non pros and only a couple of them responded but didn’t get anywhere.
    I did see a pro from here a couple of months ago a couple of times and that went pretty well. She is no longer on the site though.
    I do travel for work and when I do I contact local cuddlers and I’ve been able to make some connections. I can actually say that I’ve had more success in finding cuddle buddies while traveling than in my own local area. I usually change my location when traveling and contact local cuddlers.
    I will be in Indianapolis soon so I’ll see if I can make a connection there.
    Truth is this site is still growing so I like to check the forums and new people coming in and see what they’re all about. So I’ll stay on the site while it grows and more people join in and more opportunities for finding cuddle buddies present themselves.

  • BlueIrisBlueIris Mod

    There's an article on this on the CC blog: https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/blog/most-cuddle-friendly-states

  • wedgewoodwedgewood

    Oh wow, I didn't even know there was a blog. Thanks for sharing. It's funny I would have thought that California and Oregon would be on the list of most cuddly. For Pros, I'm wondering if there are places where it's hard to find clients. You always see men on here who complain that there aren't any pros where they are. Is it the same the other way around too?

  • ScarletteScarlette

    As a professional cuddler, I go on "Cuddle Trips" where every Sunday through Tuesday I go to a different city to cuddle. I get a very nice hotel and basically book cuddles around the clock. I can say that there are huge differences in the amount of clients I'm able to cuddle with in different cities. New York is a hot spot and Philadelphia I can completely book up including overnights. I'm struggling in Richmond, VA! Come on Richmond! Get your cuddle on!

  • [Deleted User]PlatonicOnly (deleted user)

    My region will be harder because the culture is definitely on the reserved side, so I'm guessing I will either have to wait till I travel overseas to find cuddle buddies, or maybe (by some miracle) I'll actually find someone here that would have no problems with platonic cuddling and not feel like we're about to be given the "Scarlet Letter".

  • willmott2k10willmott2k10

    I personally live in the UK and unless one travels to London it's almost impossible to find anyone to cuddle with, at least around my local area anyway. I live about 60ish miles south of there and I can't say it's no hassle travelling that far but beggars can't be choosers I guess and I've had some really nice days out meeting people there.

  • LonelyMedicProfLonelyMedicProf

    In Florida, it seems that the majority of cuddles can be found near major areas of population (i.e. Tallahassee, Jacksonville, Orlando, Miami). Areas where the population is slightly less (Brevard County, for example, where the Melbourne Airport is) has almost no one - and the ones who are right there in the area haven't logged on for months. So kind of used to looking further away, as this is how Brevard County has always been.

  • [Deleted User]PlatonicOnly (deleted user)

    willmott2k10 and LonelyMedicProf,
    I sincerely hope you two will be able to find cuddle buddies come up your area of the country or that others there get the courage to sign up and realize that there are others like them (us) that are just needing a good cuddle to brighten up our view of the world and know that everything will be ok even if it seems bleak at that moment! You two are in a country that actually have people you can access land-wise for cuddle buddies, so I hope you will not give up and be able to find others to share good cuddles with!

  • [Deleted User]PlatonicOnly (deleted user)

    By the way, I was told that though people may not have logged in for a long while, most of them will respond back quickly when you send them a message :) Kind of like a pager.
    Don't loose hope!

  • willmott2k10willmott2k10

    There's literally only one person in my immediate area and I've messaged her already but to no avail haha I'm far from giving up or losing hope though I've met some amazing people from this site so far, I just have to travel a bit to meet them is all :)

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