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In a relationship, every day and overnight. In a cuddle buddy situation, probably about once per week or two, for half/full movie.
This is a fascinating thread. Probably good for me to see how different everyone is. I agree with @Scarlette, I’d be happy cuddling all the time.... maybe 1-5 times a day 1-12 hour sessions ? I totally walk through dive bars just to give hugs to everyone I know. Sometimes I’m not even drinking. That’s how I’ve been substituting cuddling.
@me2 - 1 to 12 hours . . . my kind of cuddler!!! I love marathon cuddles. Five hours can go by before you know it. Good call on the bar hugging!!
@BlueIris thanks! Yeah I kind of have a hobbie of connecting with people. Yay marathon cuddle!
I agree with Sasha, every day for at least two hours. I’d love to start the day, waking up to a cuddle and ending the day winding down with a cuddle! Unfortunately no enthusiasts in my area and definitely could not afford that kind of cuddle schedule with a pro, lol!
On the personal side, I absolutely love snuggling up with my hubby every night. When we started dating, he wondered if my high-touch nature was going to annoy him eventually. (Five years in it hasn't started yet.)
My social group is really affectionate, too. When I am around friends, we greet and part with hugs, and casually cuddle a lot.
As a pro, it's a little different, because I'm holding space for someone else. It's a different level of effort and energy, and I limit how much of it I do to make sure I'm able to be fully available to them.
When starved of human contact any amount of cuddling would be welcome but I envy some of the professionals here who get to cuddle a variety of people that would be perfect. To experience different energies would be wonderful
Three or four times a week for like a couple hours at a time would be Perfect tbh
Probably two or three times a week for a few hours at a time.
I currently pay for the service 1X a month followed by a reiki session. It's important for my situation. I'd love to more frequently but you know, daddy needs a new pair of shoes. lol
It's really hard for me to say. Ideally I would cuddle for 2-6 hours daily, so long as my partners are nulls or rechargers. Time around most people is draining for me, so if my partner is a drainer, then i would need more breaks.
This is a good question. I'm pretty open to cuddling as often as I can. It of course depends on how long each of the cuddling sessions are and other factors like travel.
But I've had some dedicated cuddle buddies in the past and I could probably cuddle with them all week. With that thought in mind it probably depends on the level of comfort you have with the person you are cuddling. There are a lot of things to keep in mind when thinking about a set schedule or what you are willing to dedicate in terms of your time.
I'd cuddle every day if finances allowed. I gave up trying to contact non-pros. I have Asperger's Syndrome, so it's more difficult for me to strike up a conversation with someone.
Well....I would say as much as possible.
Once every two months or less is fine. After having quite a few short-term sessions here and there, I prefer to do one very long session every few months versus short spurts every week or so.