Cuddle request - Singapore

rc1992rc1992
in Cuddle Requests

I am straight male, 33 years old
Had been going thru a really though time recently
Cuddling makes me feel at peace and secure and that nothing can harm me in this world, for that moment while cuddling that is.

I had been trying to find like a “cuddle” buddy
But I have been ended up been used for my attention and sex. And after the deed is done, I am just left alone.
Same behaviour also happened with 2 of my exs.
No cuddles, just sex, and after sex they just turn their body around and do their own thing, always made me feel very lonely and uncomfortable
I know I am a guy, and it might be odd, but idk sex is not what I am after

Looking for someone who can be my cuddle buddy and a person to lean on, and likewise I will be their person to..
We can cuddle, and talk about everything under the sun or scoll TikTok endlessly or catch a thriller movie

We can head for dinner and drinks, I can host or be hosted or we can go elsewhere
Only thing I ask is please smell good,

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  • SunsetSnugglesSunsetSnuggles

    @rc1992
    Welcome to the site! You have a lovely way of expressing your intentions. It might be worth reading about asexuality, to see if it resonates with you. It is a spectrum, and perhaps you fall somewhere along it? Or you may simply really value physical touch, which certainly doesn't need to have a sexual aspect to it. 😊

    I hope you find some nice people to cuddle with, and since you're new, it's worth saying...read the message boards and be careful with your money.

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

    🫂 Enthusiast 🏞 Travel Junkie 📷 Shutter Bug

  • rc1992rc1992

    Hey! Thanks for your insights
    I can’t say I call understand the category of asexual.
    As I don’t dislike sex, I just don’t fancy it and I must truly trust the person for me to do it with them.
    Unfortunately for me, as much as it’s odd to say this from a grown men I am 33 years old and in all my relationships I had been used for sex. I don’t know why. And I don’t know why I don’t behave like other men who “embraces”

    On multiple times I had been forced to, to an extend I had to force myself to see a doc who prescribed me meds that will allow me to perform we though I don’t want it.
    It was a bad and disgusting feeling when that occurred
    I had initially thought both was the same, but I realized I didn’t fancy sex that much.

    But all I want is to feel safe..
    I am a victim of CSA so that might explain why behaviour..

    But unfortunately I have zero luck finding a cuddle buddy in Singapore.

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