Hi folks! Yes...challenging question for sure. I usually start my answer with what I wear when cuddling. (i know that's not what they're asking but it's disarming in a good way I think) "well, I like to cuddle in shorts & a tshirt usually. how about you?" And then I ask them "When you're imagining what a cuddle session is for you, what position do you see yourself in?" They usually can answer both of those questions. If they can't, I just say something like "There are many different ways to cuddle. I like being the big and little spoon. Or face to face. Or and thank you for this @mokissia! I always said the sit behind, but now will call it the mama bear." "But really, we'll be open to what unfolds and have good communication and it's going to be great!" .... kind of a thing! @RebeccaKe thanks for the question!