Thin Mints ?
There is NO justified reason for lying about your age or anything else! Shows you're unreliable.
There's an old joke that goes w/that, but naaaaaaaaaa....................
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I agree with @tacpmurg & @Krisha - lying about age, by one year or ten, is a red flag and instantly makes me lose some respect for the person.
I met a cuddler once who admitted he lied about his age. I forgave him and continued the meet-up and proceeded to have a nice cuddle, but to me it just reeks of dishonesty and insecurity.
Same concept as lying about your interests or personality...why would you want anyone to like you strictly because of a lie, knowing they wouldn't want to be around you if they really knew you?
~ Sunset Snuggles
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@SunsetSnuggles Exactly !
Curious how the OP name/profile haven't been flagged and/or warned before. "Daddy" in any way shape or form was not allowed in usernames. @CuddleDuncan and @BlueIris ?
Own your age. Respect others for theirs. Cuddling is a vibe, and if the two involved choose so, then by all means, but if age is your deciding factor, then ask yourself your motives.
Age should be a non factor for me. I’m a chatty patty the can vibe with anyone.
but if age is your deciding factor, then ask yourself your motives.
I hate math
I have been here over 6 years and I can say a big YES to the age difference. I have seen some list there age preference like 21 to 28 or 30-40. Etc. It reminds me of a dating site. I have had Pro’s not reply back to me as well as none Pro’s and I’m sure with some it’s my age. And I’m OK with that I think it’s just human nature. I have cuddled much younger and older than me. I really don’t have an ideal age or race or gender, I enjoy a nice cuddle 🤗 with anyone that likes to cuddle. That is the reason I’m here.
I’m a pro, but honestly some of my best cuddles have been with younger cuddlers in their 20s and older in their 50s-70s. Age is a number conversation, respect, and a connection are what matter most in a cuddle. I’ve cuddled people my own age and not had those things and they have been awful!
It depends on the Comfort level
I would go up in age but not down. I dunno why but it feels icky
I would say that many people on this site don’t have their real age in their profile. I’ve met several over the years and most of them don’t list their real age even if it’s only off by a few years.
There’s one pro that if you look at her age and look at her join date and do the math, that would mean she joined the site when she was 16 lol She wasn’t 16 of course, she just doesn’t list her real age.
There’s another who lists her age as 21 but she told me she’s really 25. I asked her why and she said she thinks she would get more clients if she listed herself as a 21 year old. I’ve met several who are in their 30s but list themselves in their late 20s for the same reason. Some in their 40s that list themselves in their 30s for the same reason.
I personally don’t care if their age is accurate or not. I’ve come to expect it’s inaccurate over the years and it doesn’t really matter as long as we click.
Yes some don’t like the major age differences. But others do. I have had younger cuddlers requesting for multiple cuddle sessions specially non pros n pros. You treat them nice and respectfully and be kind n to the limits they set them, then all is good. I have sent two of the younger cuddlers back to the college by helping them with their % of the fees, as making fees for their program were the only reason they were on site. They signed off and now focusing on the college. I made sure I saw the registration receipt. Reach out.
I agree with wanacuddle85. If nothing else, I'm not finding any 73 year female pro cuddlers. Hell, I have to go for those young pups like wanacuddle85. And if there were 73 year old pro-cuddlers, I suspect hip replacements would interfere with cuddling. ?????
Age is just a number.🤩 Maturity, respect and attitude are everything. Having that said I’m uncomfortable cuddling men under 30. I have noticed that emotional intelligence/maturity can still be a work in progress at that stage. I am not labeling every 20- something but like to avoid the possibility of feeling uncomfortable. I also screen potential cuddlers with a ph chat first and regardless of being over 30 if they do not emulate a certain mature awareness or I feel my safety will be compromised I don’t proceed.
Here to defend lying about your age.
If the site asks you for arbitrary information, (like, your GPA, your net worth, or your weight) refuses to let you answer in broad terms or skip the question altogether then lie all you want.
It’s nobody’s business.
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@Sideon posted: "Curious how the OP name/profile haven't been flagged and/or warned before. "Daddy" in any way shape or form was not allowed in usernames. @CuddleDuncan and @BlueIris ?"
Oh it was reported. Last year. November 25th. Someone decided to ignore it.
I disagree it's nobody's business. If I'm headed to a session with a new client, have asked for a recent picture first, and don't even recognize you when I meet you because the picture sent and age you listed were old pics and a lie?? That's absolutely not okay.
@Sideon @SunsetSnuggles as you may have noticed the name in question has been re-reported and changed.
I have no firm evidence but my feeling is that misreporting age in profiles is absolutely not the norm, but is not uncommon.
I blame society's shallow standards and unfair views of age and beauty where no one is ugly and no one's old more so for people not being honest with their age or pics than I do the individuals who feel they have to be dishonest about their age and appearance in order to get attention and acceptance from others. Ageism and lookism are assholes.
I'm only comfortable with around 10 years older or younger and I don't know why. I would like to have no age preference but unfortunely I don't feel I can choose to be different this way. I'm comfortable being friends with any age but not this type of closeness.
I've met many, many pro cuddlers who understate their age on the site. One absolutely wonderful lady who I adore is well into her forties, but states an age in mid to late thirties. When I asked her about this, she said that men looking to book will routinely filter for ages below 50, 40, or 30, so if her age said "42", she wouldn't get any bookings from guys who set their search filters for below 40. Same stories from other women I've met - thirty-somethings post an age of, say, 27, so they get bookings from guys who set the search filter for ages below 30.
I completely get it.
There are some very useful reasons for making one’s age older than what it really is.
@SunsetSnuggles Hmm there is no record of that report, skipped or otherwise. I only see one that was made very recently from this thread. Perhaps it was someone else reported?
Edit: Oh nevermind, it just wasn’t a username report. Action was taken on another part of the report which clears it out, so it may have been lost in the shuffle while other action was taken.