Will cuddling with new people give confidence to face the crowd?

[Deleted User]Raga (deleted user)

Though i am 28 and i workin a good company, i always feel have fear to talk to new people, kind of hesitation... .If it is related to job, i duno from where i am getting confidence to talk infront all people..All people are very nice at my work place, still i duno why i couldnt start a friendly conversation with them, say in cafeteria or in lobby... Even if i initiate a conversation, i am being very silent and my words are not reaching to other people's ears.. lol, i duno if i can post this here or not, just wondering if anyone could give suggestions..

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  • [Deleted User]MonsterRain (deleted user)

    It's possible.

    Now I'm in a complete opposite as I perform for crowds often and have zero issues in being before any number of people with a few shows I've done having been around 5 thousand.

    I don't have any issues as far as talking one on one but you add intimacy and now I shut down.

    I could probably walk on stage in underwear or completely nude and not think about it or be bothered but present someone before me who is going to touch me and that all changes.

    Yet it's far more different when it is one on one so my opinion is that you may just get what you need and find that cuddling empowers you to be who you fee you are in that others will take notice.

    It's possible I can help you in terms of being able to talk to others and effectively present yourself and command attention without begging for it.

    Should you wish to talk, message me freely.

    If not, I wish you the best on your travels and believe that if you think it can help you that it can and ultimately will.

  • Perhaps it can, only one way to find out. Plus everyone is different so what doesn't work for one person might work for you. I think give a try if you're interested it could make a difference or not. By crowd do you mean like giving presentations or just meeting new people - strangers?

  • [Deleted User]Raga (deleted user)

    @MonsterRain
    Thanks for your reply.. Whenever I go to mobile store or any store, i just buy products and pay the bill, but i usually have lot of questions and clarifications to ask to the store people.. its just an example.. Similarly i dont initiate conversation to new people and even if i did i am unable to hold interesting conversation.. Thanks for your extended help!!!

  • [Deleted User]Raga (deleted user)

    @Lovelight
    Thank you for your reply....
    Crowd means, both at office i have to give lot of presentations to bigger audience.. At the same at the normal places such as store or restaurant, i am unable to talk to the folks normally..

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