@bobbiescuddles I see you arr a pro pending approval! Congratulations. I wish you many wonderful and safe cuddles. What our collective focus should be on is reporting enthusiasts who try to charge a fee without being approved as a professional. We should support our site and professionals ... and this helps weed out those who do not like a ledger of their sessions. Be well and safe everyone!
The original question was inappropriate as some people pointed out, so it was changed.
@CoolRiddleGuy To change a question after it's been answered is dishonest. A better option would have been to ask the mods to lock the thread.
Mods can you please delete the thread and I'll redo it? Thanks
Always this negativity and judging on here 👎👎👎
@CoolRiddleGuy People complained about the original question, so you changed it and people complained because you changed it.
Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
SITE SUGGESTION: Ability for people to delete their own topics.
Always this negativity and judging on here
@Krisha Yes! And don’t forget the peacocking that some are addicted to.
@Krisha I'm with you. Negativity and rudeness does not fit the cuddle community. People who read too much and assume based on someone's forum post does not really know where the person is coming from. I've seen a lot of bullying on here. A lot of the same old posters ganging up on newcomers.
All of us know what it's like to be bullied. It is awful.
@CoolRiddleGuy Simply did not know and is listening and changing based on feedback. Feedback does not have to be rude.
I want to welcome you, good sir! To the cuddling community.
Thank you all for understanding. Personally I'm not feeling bullied because anyone that feels the need to put others down has internal struggles that are more concerning.
@IronicMaiden I see what you did there. 🤣
One great thing about this thread is that we are connecting. That's what this site is all about 😎.
I think the original question was certainly misguided, but doesn't seem ill intended. i certainly don't blame pros for not wanting to answer it given some of the other threads that have happened in these forums.
I don't think the feedback for the OP question was overly negative, i think it was people expressing their distaste for it and mentioning the history of the forum in general, which they are allowed to do.
In changing the title and question, it was switched to something completely unrelated. which is just confusing for those who already replied and those replying now.
OP maybe try another edit where you include the original question and what happened so people know what they are reading. and why you have second guessed it and understand how it might have not been the best question to ask. then you can restart another thread where you ask about how this site has changed people's lives.
Just a thought, you can do whatever you like and others can reply however they like. 🤷♀️
Locked at OP's request. (Note that a request to lock is sometimes granted and sometimes not. Threads are not removed unless it is absolutely necessary.) OPs have the power to edit thread titles for the purpose of correcting typos, clarifying meaning, etc. Changing the topic materially is a Bad Plan. If you do ever change the topic of your thread, please explain in a post. @CoolRiddleGuy it seems you have already learned the lesson. Feel free to start a new thread.