Let’s talk photos

bluebellebluebelle
in Pro Cuddling

So I have a photo of course but I get messaged by every male who does not-and it’s not a.big deal to me until we book then it’s required as stated-I get asked repeatedly before booking for more photos a current photo or a full length body picture -I finally stood my ground and said I’m happy to send more after we book and you provide one now and he -then proceeded to come at me “I’m selling a service or advertising a service” I should do what is asked and not play cat and mouse with back and forth -to which i replied -I am allowed to maintain boundaries you have no photo and no karma and then he blocked me -am I wrong for keeping my photos to myself until I choose to send or after a booking?

Comments

  • BlueIrisBlueIris Mod

    Not at all. Some people collect photos or play other games to see if they can manipulate you. Remember that the clients you want will not argue with you. They will politely do as you ask. Anyone else is trouble in the making.

  • DinoCuddlesDinoCuddles

    You’re not wrong. You have a good, clear picture of yourself and you don’t owe anyone anything more. I also ask anyone wanting to schedule a cuddle for a recent picture and I’m happy to return the gesture after they’ve sent one. I’m not sending multiple pictures though, I don’t see a reason to.

  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan Mod

    Your existing photo meets the site rules in spades and anything else is entirely a matter for you.

    Respectfully requesting a full length photo while providing one themselves is, in my view, reasonable. It is made by genuine clients, but it's relatively unusual.

    Most photo requests are from boundary pushers and photo collectors, and therefore are immediately suspect. If somebody tries to insist, please Report them because that's harassment.

  • beaublissbeaubliss

    @bluebelle Be grateful for the messaging thread you described; you are gaining important information from a potential client that is definitely a red flag. Anybody that suggests you need to behave in a manner that serves them and their requests is likely a bully, and potentially a bad actor. Just refuse to engage.

    Now, that being said, many men have experienced cuddlers that don't look like their pictures. Some are 10 years old, others display bodies that are different. They just want to know who they are going to be meeting. Reasonable, yes, but also need reciprocation, so they should certainly furnish you with a photo that's recent. Having a quick video chat is also helpful, then one can also put a voice to a face, and gain some sense of their energy.

  • bluebellebluebelle

    Absolutely agree and I always send more photos after we book but ..a man with no karma and no photo really rubbed me the wrong way making demands -to you point dodged a bullet 😊

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