Enthusiast cuddles?

love4embracelove4embrace
in Cuddle Requests

Hi,
I’m just wondering has anyone had cuddle sessions , enthusiast with enthusiast? I have paid for many Pro cuddle sessions over the last year or so and have really enjoyed some of those sessions but cannot pay for them all the time. I have tried reaching out to other enthusiast/non-pro cuddlers but I rarely receive a response. Just wondering if anyone else has connected in this way as an enthusiast or if anyone has suggestions for me with that. I appreciate it very much!

Comments

  • cuddlefaerycuddlefaery

    @love4embrace if you're only seeking women enthusiasts, we're few in number and spread thin. Men already greatly outnumber women on the site, thus why most women here are pros.

    If you want to find a woman who is an enthusiast, it's going to take time. Likely far more time than the 2 months you've been here on the site. Not only are you trying to find a four leaf clover, but then you also have to spend the time, energy, and effort cultivating actual friendship with the enthusiast - a process which is sped up or eliminated via paying a pro. There are a large number of threads in the General tab on this topic - it'd probably be helpful for you to go back and read through them.

    Best of luck in your search!

  • love4embracelove4embrace

    Ok, thanks, I appreciate the feedback.

  • love4embracelove4embrace
    edited June 25

    Honestly, I’m ok spending the time to form a possible friendship with enthusiast by talking for a while without cuddling at first. I don’t have many friends at all right now so would be nice to at least talk to someone on a consistent basis if anyone is willing.

  • BlueIrisBlueIris Mod

    @love4embrace Here are two threads that may interest you:

    https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/25556/do-enthusiasts-exist
    https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/25806/pro-paid-vs-enthusiast

  • love4embracelove4embrace

    Thanks I appreciate that!

  • mauvefoxmauvefox

    You can also filter your search results to exclude pros and expand your search radius, and exclude folks who haven't logged on in a while (if she hasn't logged on in the last few months, it's doubtful she's logging on soon).

    the forum threads have great ideas on how to make reaching out the most effective. but I'd say mostly just pay close attention to whatever she has put in her profile.

  • love4embracelove4embrace

    Thanks, I do that already. I try not to put more than 200 miles radius from me though.

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