This site is for cuddling not other stuff..

AugustKittyAugustKitty
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Venting a bit here -I'm getting really tired of the creeps and users promoting more than cuddles, its kinda gross to be honest like there are SO MANY sites to go to find something "more" or show off your un-desired. It's irritating, I feel like I can't be as comfortable anymore on here as I used to be, and that's the whole point to make someone feel comfortable and safe and cared about. That combination with fake accounts at a all time high.
I just don't know if it's just me or are other people seeing and experiencing this too?

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  • JeremiaaahhhJeremiaaahhh

    It’s a little annoying
    I just report them and let the ban hammer do it’s thing

  • AugustKittyAugustKitty

    It's unfortunate because I know alot people come here to feel safe and comfortable and when people of that area start flooding in, it becomes a unsafe space and I hate it.

  • JeremiaaahhhJeremiaaahhh

    Yeah

  • QualTy1QualTy1

    100% I am in the same exact boat @AugustKitty
    I've been experiencing it more and more and I only been on here since '24. I feel like every guy has ulterior motives than just cuddling. It makes me sad and quite disgusted. I say it in my profile platonic ONLY. I've noticed when I highlight that I get fewer inquiries, but when I remove it I get a lot more inquiries. It saddens me beyond belief.
    I will say this too, if anyone looks at my karma there are quite a few that are banned now.

  • QualTy1QualTy1

    It is definitely becoming an unsafe area on here. I know for a fact that there are pros who do "extras" one used to be a good friend of mine but now not and I'm guessing because we cuddled a couple of the same clients and she knew they told me what she did and she was embarrassed so she essentially ghosted me! Other clients have points blank told me of some of the things women have told them as far as extras and fees for said extras. Yes, it's disheartening because a lot of people honestly just need a safe human connection. I am getting to the point where I no longer feel comfortable because I know I'm going to have to be on guard before I even get to the location for the session. I'm of course, careful in vetting people and even have safeguards in place should things go south, but I hate that it's become more of a sexual platform or dating platform, it is neither. :(

  • AugustKittyAugustKitty

    The thing is it's not just men on here it's women as well and some girls are promoting doing more and it's making the site look bad, And then some guys are getting mistaken for things when they're actually just wanting cuddles, Because the guys that are creeps are around.
    It's like both sides of being a cuddler in a pro have like fake people on the cuddler side, an inappropriate pros asking for more and it's making the whole thing have a bad algorithm of people joining.

  • Carrie_AnneCarrie_Anne

    It’s definitely a problem here. Best thing to do is to report immediately - anything at all indicating non-platonic and the Mods will check it out. Even in messages before meeting.
    Use recommended methods of screening before finalizing a booking. There are many threads with tips for safety that are pinned at the top of forum threads, especially in Pro Cuddling and Pros Only forums. Reading will really help you, especially for new Pros.

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    The SWs have always been on here and probably always will be, but I think if you are seeing an influx of it or an uptick it is simply because everything has become so expensive over the past year—rent, food, utilities, etc. When people can’t make ends meet they become desperate. I think that is a contributing factor.

    However, I think the site has upped its game in this regard and they do have two female mods now who do not hesitate to cyber execute offenders. I just think the numbers are larger than they used to be as CC becomes a victim of its own success in many ways and while the moderation team has expanded its size, so has the number of members.

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    And I would add that I reported a profile this morning that was pretty much offering “dates” and offering sessions for “all needs” along with other hints. That profile has already vanished into the ether. So the mods are on it. Please report.

  • BlueIrisBlueIris Mod
    edited July 6

    I enjoy my job.

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    @BlueIris You were born for it!

  • SideonSideon

    @BlueIris - this brings me great joy. Let the creeps, groomers, and trolls tremble in fear and unlife in the great Banned Camp.

  • MelanieLMelanieL

    Thank you, Mods, for being so amazing!! You all are appreciated.

  • AugustKittyAugustKitty

    I will say when I do make a report I do appreciate how it gets taken care of quickly.

  • cuddlefaerycuddlefaery

    Unfortunately most people, especially new pros, don't tend to do much research into the pitfalls of platonic & professional cuddling until after they're experiencing problems. I wish the education side of communities was more robust & required in order to create safer spaces and better quality experiences for members. Unfortunately a lot of that newbie vetting/onboarding gets lost in the quest for open accessibility and influencer marketing. It's not just in platonic cuddling or on CC, either - since it's a systemic problem it reaches across into many adjacent niches. It happens with massage therapy too, despite there being widely available training and certification.

  • Carrie_AnneCarrie_Anne
    edited July 6

    And why aren’t they required? Why isn’t it mandatory before becoming a Pro?
    It would be an additional step in the approval process.
    I know the answer will be that there’s not enough manpower to do it, would cost too much money and time but to me it should be the responsible thing to do. Just a fantasy though.
    It’s a rhetorical question, I get it.

  • KatotaKatota

    there are SO MANY sites to go to find something "more"

    😋😆

    @AugustKitty Lol! Yeah that's not entirely true, I am still trying to find a site dedicated to Human Women/Werewolf Mating! 🙋🐺❤️

    Or perhaps a site called "Human Women For Werewolves" ? ❤️🐺👍

    "Bite Me, Wolfman" or something of that nature. Ya know? 🤷😁

    As for the main topic at hand, believe me I totally understand. @AugustKitty 😁🫂😁🫂

  • pmvinespmvines

    I mean, it is for other stuff too like shits and giggles but I see your point

  • wanacuddle85wanacuddle85

    😂😂😂 @BlueIris that was epic

    Girl just hang in there, I’ve noticed the same. Honestly my best advice report them, personally I wait a week and then report them… by then they’ve normally found the pro that’s also agreed to do more and you’ll notice people go missing 😂😂🤦‍♀️ it’s more fun that way! Like wack-a-mole

  • Bill1975Bill1975

    I laughed at the wack-a-mole comment! I think part of the problem is the sex culture in society today. Not everything physical has to lead to sex, but unfortunately, that is what has been taught for so long through several different forms of communication that it is hard to correct. I joined this site because I miss the physical act of cuddling. I am not interested in anything more or else I would go to the other resources available to me both online and in the real world. When I am here, I want to find real cuddling without the added stuff, but the problem is that the ones who truly understand my needs do not live anywhere near me. Sigh.

    I met a friend here who disabled her account because she told me that it has become much darker than when she first joined. I still talk to her on a regular basis and she has decided not to return. I can imagine that it is much worse for the women here than the men when it comes to stuff like this, but I also know that the legit men here also suffer because we get grouped together with the creeps since it is hard to tell the difference from looking at a profile. Not sure what the answer is other than just keep reporting and hope that somehow, the system will self correct and we can get back to what this site is supposed to be for.

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