You know you've got big spoon, little spoon. Squeeze tons of stuff. My favorite by far is the half spoon
Pancake
I'm a big fan of the face to face
Pretzel has always been a fave of mine.
Baby Spoon
I'm unfamiliar with pancake? I really love pretzel and spooning
Oh man… pretzel and sweetheart for me!!! And just because I’d never turn down a foot rub, going off the photo above, the drawbridge!! Not sure who’s partaking in the mirror position but to each their own I guess… 😝 @MeltMyWay Great photo reference 🙌🏽
Pretzel/Half Spoon for sure
@GroundingLight The mirror is a sleeping position for me.
@Krisha If that’s your comfort then great! 😊 I like to be gripped up and held and to hold back 🤷🏽♀️ We all have our own picks..
I guess I don't know what some of these things mean. I'll doing some research
@VibeSeeker We should try all of them and then come back and make a post about our observations lol For research purposes of course 😝
@GroundingLight You like to be gripped up when sleeping? When a cuddle session I prefer that too of course.
@Krisha Absolutely! Think weighted blanket… feels cozy and safe 🤷🏽♀️
@GroundingLight ty. I am down
@VibeSeeker I love that energy!!!! Let’s gooooo! 🤣🤩
What’s one cuddle position you thought you wouldn’t like but ended up loving?
I’m curious because I’ve noticed that sometimes the positions that look awkward or uncomfortable in theory can end up being the ones that feel the most natural once you’re actually with the right person.
For me, I think body type, height difference, how someone holds you, and even how relaxed you feel with them can completely change a position. Something that didn’t work with one cuddle partner has suddenly become a favorite of mine with someone else.
I also think there are positions people avoid because they assume they’ll feel too vulnerable, too confined, too warm, or just physically uncomfortable. But then, they may try it once and realize, oh… this is actually amazing.
So I’m curious: What position surprised you the most, if any?
Was it because of the position itself, the person you were cuddling with, or the way they held you?
And has a position you dreaded become one of your regular favorites afterward? 👀
I haven't dreaded any cuddling, but what surprised me was being asked to be the big spoon! I thought it would feel awkward as the client was much taller than me, but it felt really natural. Actually kind of maternal. It was nice.
Boston crab
No specific cuddle position comes to mind, but I definitely agree that everything feels different with different cuddlers. What would feel basic or unconnected with one can feel like utter bliss with another. What would feel awkward with one can feel bonding with another. What would feel physically uncomfortable with one can fit perfectly with another. It's always nice finding those lovely moments with each individual.
~ Sunset Snuggles
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Yab Yum, it did not seem like it would be the most comfortable or easiest to maintain, but with the right partner, it was surprisingly comfortable and close.
My current cuddle partner told me about people she's cuddled in the past wanting to either lay on top of her or have her lay on them, I didn't get it, but one day she was having trouble relaxing because of her back. She basically did child's pose while laying on me to stretch it out a little and the weight was actually pretty comforting.
@gundam619 Sharpshooter or figure 4 leglock
@gundam619 , this cannot be a real cuddle position. Looks more like a wrestling match to me😹😹
@NYCLatnGuy the first time someone did it with me, I fell in love. But, I was on top so it’s super comfortable up there. I’ll try to get someone on here to let me be at the bottom and see if it’s as uncomfortable as I think it might be
@Suzie_Q , I wouldn’t even need to be asked for that one. I love to try making people taller or bigger than me feel like pretty little princesses if they wish 😹😹
@JustAGuy215 @Ruby14 I've only let two people pancake me, since for a long time it felt way too sexually ambiguous. But I had a great friendship with both and absolutely loved it when I finally gave it a shot. It's the ultimate weighted blanket.
Being the top pancake was also difficult for me to finally agree to, since I feared I would crush them. But it has gone super well each time, and my misgivings turned out to be unfounded...they survived. 🤪
@Ruby14 I volunteer! 🙋🏻♂️But, in all seriousness, it may be wiser to have someone closer to your size or smaller for your first time on the bottom. I have found it also helps to use pillows to help support your back/hips/legs when on bottom. I have never tried being on top, and would be curious to try 🤷🏻♂️
@SunsetSnuggles, as someone who love to be the bottom pancake, I can tell you from experience that you’re never as heavy as you think , I’ve never once felt like I was suffocating. But my height has put me at a disadvantage with taller cuddlers so, they don’t get the full experience
@NYCLatnGuy , thank you for the tip. I’ll be sure to apply them.
You definitely should try the next time you’re cuddling. I’m sure you will enjoy it just as much, if not more since you don’t do it often