How do I find a person?

SwingDancer

Hi. I'm new to this and I'm wondering if people have any tips for meeting cuddly people in person from this site. I live in Indianapolis, IN and so far the only guy who wanted to cuddle was a truly dirty creep. I'm just looking to be held and to hold someone close. Am I using this thing correctly?

Scarlette

Did you look at the cuddles in your area?

SwingDancer

Yeah. But the one person who wanted to meet me got perverted and sexual about it. I really would not feel safe alone in a room with him

mellow

Your profile has listed your preferred age as between 21 and 28. It has been discussed here before that younger guys are more prone to not keep things platonic and trying to use this as a hook up site.
Maybe you’d have better luck with somebody more mature so you could try to find cuddle partners between 30 and 40 and while still on the younger side that age bracket would better suit your search for a platonic cuddle buddy.
Good luck

BlueIris

I agree with @mellow. Your preferred age range includes only the guys who are likely to be the horniest and the least in control of their responses. You'll need to refine your screening methods and really listen to your gut when the guy says anything questionable. If you'd like to discuss that, feel free to pm me.

Let_Me_Hold_You

Hi @SwingDancer,

I am very sorry that your first contact with someone through CuddleComfort was an unpleasant one.

The "Terms and Conditions" state:

https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/site/tos
Personal Boundaries

You agree to never use this Website for the intent of meeting another member for sex. You also agree to never attempt to progress a meeting, organised via this website, to a sexual nature.

If you believe that the user you interacted with violated these terms, you may wish to report him to the web site administrator / moderator. To do this, display the person's profile, click on the button with the three dots and click "Report." Some of the possible options that may fit your case are "Harassment", "Scammer" or "Other". One report may not get a profile suspended or banned, but if the person engages in similar behavior with others and it is reported more than once, then the administrator / moderator might take some action.

Moving beyond all that, I would echo what @mellow and @BlueIris have said regarding age. If you are looking for platonic cuddles, I would encourage you to open yourself up to a broader age range, read more profiles and try contacting someone else. Of course, you're dealing with flawed human beings, so there are certainly no guarantees. An older man could be just as creepy.

Although I am new to this web site, I have had cuddle friends in the past, and if I lived closer to you, I would be happy to get together for non-sexual affection and cuddling.

You've got a nice profile photo, and you've made your allergic sensitivities clear, so I hope you will try again and find what you're looking for.

respectful

@SwingDancer One option is to meet with a professional; they are bound to keep things platonic and non-sexual. I can see one in your area around your age: HumanSnuggie.

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