@pmvines xD Oh, I agree, I think it makes a much more suitable fashionable carryon; what with its pink sparkles and flower doilies and such, and it's so light imaginary things often are that a lil' lady like me can take it anywhere...!
Meanwhile, I've got this playing in my head when I read this thread: https://youtube.com/watch?v=jk6gjqMrOy8
This thread is better than Netflix/HBO Now and Amazon VPrime combined.
I'm cancelling my subscriptions tout suite.
Please, continue...
@chococuddles Instigator!!! lol
I am just going to comment on this thread one more time because I have other things to do and not much more needs to be said by me. If people want to respond to me in private, they are welcome to and I will reply. I know that I may sound like a broken record on the forum, but I am just discussing certain aspects of my life and opinions on hot topics that potentially could portray women in a negative light. There are two main groups of people/movements based on gender that I consider to be extreme: feminist and MGTOW. I am not an advocate of either, although I learn from both groups when I read articles and watch YouTube videos. If a woman has strong and negative opinions about men, it is not considered to be inflammatory on the forum. I feel that there is unfair bias on the forum and people should be able to bring different perspectives to the discussion. I know I may be perceived as a one-trick pony, but I feel that I am fair and impartial as much as possible. However, I do have a certain point of view. In general, I do not have a negative opinion of women. I get along great with most women in my personal life and in the workplace. I have been a teacher, private tutor, and now a librarian. These are jobs that you have to be genuinely caring about people. I help people whenever I can. As an energy healer, I help people such as friends and family, but I have also helped strangers for no money. I reduced my hourly rate as a tutor so that children could get the help they needed and also to graduate high school. I am an interesting, well-rounded person who has had many different life experiences, but the forum shows me responding to topics that I feel strongly about. I recall that there was one female on the forum who falsely accused me of being a safety risk to cuddlers because of my comments. That was uncalled-for, but I have usually worked in careers where the employees are mostly female and I have occasionally dealt with unfair treatment and a hostile work environment because of my gender. I want to meet normal caring women and I do meet them through cuddling. There are times when I meet the opposite, but you have to take the good with the bad. I feel that I should not hide my bad experiences, but it does not mean that I only have bad experiences with cuddlers and women in general. I think it is childish for women to block me because of my opinions on the forum. I'm probably never going to meet these people. I do not intend to portray myself as a victim and I have moved on with my life in spite of the unfair things that have happened to me. I feel that women can comment negatively about men with no effect on how most people perceive them on the forum. I finally want to state that someone did send a message to me privately and most of what I wrote to this person is in this post.
Love is not something that needs to be earned, it is something to be freely given. You should trust someone because you love them, not love them because you trust them. The only time it should be difficult to trust someone is after they have broken the trust you inherently have in them. Jim
For the moment I've placed a ban on @MrMountainLion's account. Expressing controversial opinion in such an insensitive way like this suggests there is some trolling or baiting going on.
I'm also now closing this thread. Controversial opinion is fine and so is expressing a mistrust of marriage and potential relationship dynamics that might occur there. It's also valid to try and make an argument that on a subconscious level everyone uses everyone to some degree. This topic isn't about everyone though, it's taking aim at just women and it doesn't seem balanced. Going by the reports it's disrupting the community here too.