On Meeting a Client for the First Time-Safety Related, Thoughts Appreciated!

Hi everyone,

When you're meeting with a client for the first time, do you meet at their home or a public space? Generally, I would never consider meeting a new person at a private place, but I imagine it would be awkward to cuddle in a public space? How do you even "cuddle" in public? Lol. I would appreciate any thoughts! Thank you!

Morpheus

I’ve seen over 20 pros and only 1 has requested we meet publicly first. That being said, what would my best advice be to a female a care about such as my little sister, I would say don’t be a pro Cuddler. A public cuddle could be a movie theater for example where it’s public but dark and semi private.

Thanks for responding! facepalms duh, Anja. Of course, movie theater. Not enough coffee today, I guess!

respectful

@Anja_Anne There are some posts about public cuddling here that might inspire you.

AshleyCuddles

I think another one would be holding hands walking through the park. Which sounds amazing. But also you could say meet at Starbucks for coffee first until you feel comfortable enough to go somewhere private to cuddle. I like to do anything I can to make sure both I and my cuddler is very comfortable before cuddling cause really the worst thing would be feeling awkward and watching the clock wishing it was over.

Morpheus

The one pro that wanted me to meet her first met with me at Starbucks. We had an hour session scheduled, ended up spending an hour at Starbucks, then an hour session at my house which she ended up staying an extra hour for free. During the course of the session, she was showing me something on her phone when a reminder on her phone opened up saying, reminder, take Prozac and the another reminder popped up saying reminder, appointment with psychiatrist tomorrow. I was like wow and she was feeling me out

AshleyCuddles

lol @morpheus