Hey guys I’m new on here just figuring out ways to build clientele and provide the best experience possible any tips are welcome
I'm new also, and feel like I have a pretty good idea, but curious to see responses.
The #1 thing is to make the client your top focus. No checking your phone. And be an active presence. You might get a lot of tips for being fancy, but I would start with a lower hourly rate and just focus on avoiding main mistakes, and being a pleasant experience for them. Once you get comfortable, you can start adding more fancy stuff. That's just my opinion though.
I say get fancy!!!! You need to set yourself apart from all of the other cuddlers. You do that with the small stuff. Hone your craft and market your ass off!
But I set myself apart by not being fancy and focusing on genuine connection and attention without fancy distractions, hehe ;-) I do plan on some environment additions, but I will always be my genuine self, which is not fancy, and I feel this sets me apart. I've found a lot of guys like that.
I still think it's important to focus on technique and the process before getting bogged down by details though.
I think you can be fancy and still have a genuine connection. A beautiful room, the perfect play list, aromatherapy, candlelight, a bottle of water and men's toiletries really aren't distractions, are they? I've never had anyone say they are way too distracted by the perfect setting.
Just different. Nothing wrong with either approach. Everyone looks for something different. Right now I'm cheap, learning, so you'll get less of a finessed business. I'll work on putting together what will be my unique offering over time, and increase my rate as I get everything together. :-) I'm like the barber college of cuddling at the moment, lol. O:-)