Random no touch areas

tallteddytallteddy
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Do you have areas you rather not be touched while cuddling? I don't mean the obvious (sexual) zones, but rather areas that you don't like to be touched that other people wouldn't know about.

I don't like my ears being touched and I really hate being poked in the belly.

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  • respectfulrespectful

    Well I thought my chest was generally not where I wanted to be touched, but someone did with their thumb, and it was nice after all ...

    But bellies aren't real fun to be poked. :)

  • UKGuyUKGuy

    The only one that comes to mind is my nose. Also don't like my back to be patted, rub it, knead it or even scratch it, but I'm not a dog so don't pat it.

  • pmvinespmvines

    Not a big fan of my face being touched especially my ears, or my neck , or bottoms of feet

  • UKGuyUKGuy

    @pmvines - that's a pity because the neck and feet are where many people feel the most tension. A neck or foot massage is wonderfully relaxing.

  • LovelightLovelight
    edited April 2018

    No pity. Just preference. :)

    I'd probably say ears too. They are/can be erogenous zones.

  • pmvinespmvines

    @UKGuy If I am super relaxed and you can manhandle my feet and it is ok but not otherwise lol, i have had a couple pedis and almost kicked the poor lady in the face!

  • pmvinespmvines

    when i go for a massage my regular knows shoulders down no neck or face, and only sometimes the feet

  • amsmithamsmith

    Arm pits or anywhere near them. Like if someone puts their arm around me, hand either needs to be on waist or lower arm, but not upper arm or anywhere near armpit.

    Also my belly button.

  • [Deleted User]lilredmage (deleted user)

    Don't poke my belly button. I'll end up giggling like the Pillsbury Doughboy. It would be embarrassing for the both of us. Trust me.

  • JasonCuddlesJasonCuddles

    haha that just sounds great lilred. I don't have anywhere I don't like, I just wanted to mention that I like your post.

  • ShadesofblueShadesofblue

    @ukguy i agree with you foot rubs are wonderful! i love them!

  • CeliaCCeliaC

    My navel, because I can feel it INSIDE, awful... It looks as though that's a pretty common discomfort zone... collarbones, and the front of my neck (being assaulted and choked will do that to you), but other than that, I'm not currently aware of any other areas I would take issue with.

  • [Deleted User]MoonlightSonata (deleted user)

    @tallteddy I can't really think of any specific cuddling styles or kinds of touch that I don't like.

    The closest thing I can really think of is that I don't like other people to clean my ears. I don't think this is something I will probably encounter a lot. Lol

    As a kid my mom always tried to clean my ears when she thought I needed it and kind of ninja cleaned them when I wasn't looking. I didn't really enjoy that. :p

  • RadinkaRadinka

    I wear makeup ? so for me it's my face ?

  • abruder808abruder808

    i don't like my sides/waist being touched- i'm really REALLY ticklish so whenever i'm touched there i violently flinch lol. it's especially bad bc whenever I tell people I'm ticklish there their immediate reaction is to try to tickle my sides so it's like a gut reaction to flinch as far away from their grasp as possible

  • BrianLBrianL

    Just don’t tickle and we’re fine. Thing is like if my sides are being ticklish, a light touch will set it off. But using the whole hand won’t.

  • CeliaCCeliaC

    I hate being poked in the side - I'm very thin, so it hurts, as there's no padding.

  • [Deleted User]EastsideCuddles (deleted user)

    I don't like my mouth being touched, or pressure on my nose. I love gentle pressure on my eyes and cheeks though! Getting poked in the eye would be not great either lol

  • MarvinNYCMarvinNYC

    the middle toe on my left foot ... drives me crazy.

  • tallteddytallteddy

    @MarvinNYC That's oddly specific. Why would that one be different from the other toes?

  • MarvinNYCMarvinNYC

    @tallteddy - my attempt at humor, nothing more. I just found most of the responses funny.

  • RedsownerRedsowner

    Perhaps this lame site should provide in the profile, a place to indicate an area of the body that you do not wish to be touched. Maybe more important to know than what religion you are. This would quell a great deal of concerns people have about wether or not they would like cuddle with a stranger. Cuddling may be grossly overrated!

  • MorpheusMorpheus

    Haha funny question which I’m sure is geared more towards females. Um fingers in my nose or ears would be bizarre. Armpits would be a little odd as well.

  • [Deleted User]Spoonie (deleted user)

    It’s like they say;: “You can pick your friends and you can pick your nose. But you can’t pick your friend’s nose!”

  • [Deleted User]GameStriker4481 (deleted user)

    I don't like being touched at the front of my neck. I get really defensive when that happens

  • [Deleted User]Victoria92 (deleted user)

    Similar to getting defensive around the throat, I get defensive if someone grabs and holds my wrists. Depending on the original position, they might end up on the floor, in pain. >.<

  • [Deleted User]Spoonie (deleted user)

    Ouch!

  • [Deleted User]Victoria92 (deleted user)

    I took Taekwondo for a while and learned self defense.... ^^;

  • mickcuddlemickcuddle

    Yeah, my face. I. Think I’m ok with the back of my neck being touched, but please ask before you touch my eyes, nose, mouth, etc

  • [Deleted User]JustLeeon (deleted user)

    Yes, my stomach because I'm ticklish.

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