I for the longest time because it was available to me and it made sense. but it turn over the years to just ventilation. and big money so it was like cattle branding . " GET THEM IN GET THEM OUT " just listen no real treatment and get them back again next week. so CUDDLING BECAME AN EXTENSION OF FILLING VOIDS IN A PERSONS LIFE FOR ME IT WAS A RENEWAL OF BEING LONELY EMPTY AND WITHOUT A PURPOSE DRIVEN LIFE. A LOVELESS MARRIAGE A SEXLESS MARRAIGE BY CHOICE . SO TOUCH AND CUDDLE THERAPY FILLS SO MANY VOIDS IN LIFE AND IT WORKS BETTER THAN JUST COUNSELING . SO THANK YOU CUDDLERS . CUDDLING IS NOT ABOUT AROUSAL ITS ABOUT DEALING WITH THE ELEPHANT ISSUES OF THOSE DIVORCE OR MARRIED BUT LONELY THOSE SINGLE THOSE SEPARATED . AND NOT KNOWING HOW TO FIND LOVE OR ENJOY A SENSE OF TOUCH ON A PLATONIC LEVEL: NOBODY HAD TO BE LONELY ANYMORE ; WOMEN OR MEN ; I RECOMMEND IT 100% I KNOW I SEEN COUNSELORS OVER 25 YRS ; CUDDLING WORKS ;