I just had a lovely cuddle with someone new, and afterwards I felt like taking some time to reflect ... a bit hard to put it into words, but I guess I just wanted to process it.
Do you do anything special after cuddling?
After showering, I re-center and do some qigong. After this, I relax and reflect like you stated; cuddling has wonderful effects that last for awhile after for me
after cuddling , I send a message to them thanking them. as far as my processing, and reflecting, I think about what position was enjoyable, at what point did I feel the most relaxed, what they liked and the dialogue. The feeling that lingers most is the embracing hugs, and relaxed breathing.
Agree totally with happy bear. A thank you note to appreciate how much they gave of themselves, and refecting on what helped me feel the most relaxed.
@PinkLipstick22 Same here. However Ive only cuddled with people at friends' house parties and the like. But yeah, the warm fuzzy feeling always lasts for at least an hour. It really stays with me. Even the next day I think "Cuddling happened. So yeah, that was pretty cool party." Haha
Sometimes I meditate. Sometimes I journal. But it does stay with me. I’m always learning more about other people AND about me.
I usually meditate as well. Sometimes have a snack that is equally cuddly. If that makes any sense. Comfort foods.