Hello!
Should someone be immediately banned for saying that they would kiss me at the door of the cuddle space? This along with a massage. He didn’t seem to focus on the kissing, but this person doesn’t have any karma either.
Thank you
~Sweetie
I would remind them of the rule that no kissing is allowed. If they insist, that would be a red flag and a good cause to report them.
Edit: I take it back. Do not meet with this person. Anyone who is simply looking to cuddle wouldn't make suggestions like that.
@Dreamy_Sweetie Since you are the paid cuddler, the burden is on you to make sure things don't progress to something that violates TOS, as people will undoubtedly try to push boundaries from time to time. I would say that a potential client saying they want to kiss and give you a massage right off the bat is testing you to see what your reaction with be, whether they are allowed to push boundaries with you. Be firm about it, and they will either be respectful and not continue with it, or they will continue to push and say like oh but why not, etc, or you simply wont hear from them again. I would not say it is going to necessarily get them banned, but you may want to still report it.
@Dreamy_Sweetie you don’t have any karma either.
@Dreamy_Sweetie Karma doesn't have a lot to do with it, as many people will give good karma even if the client is slimy out of fear of retaliation, like being given bad karma in return or the person making up something about them to try to create a bad rep for the cuddler. I have even heard of certain clients giving bad karma and then trying to manipulate the cuddler into giving them a free session in order to have it removed. I say all this to point out that regardless of the person having karma or not, what they are proposing is not appropriate for a paid cuddle session, could very well be trying to push it to something more, and once money exchanges hands, you really have to be very firm about boundaries and keeping things platonic. If you have a bad feeling about something, karma or not, don't do it!
@Morpheus HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
I don't have any karma either, but still funny.
Honestly a nice hug and fake kiss on the cheek upon greeting goes a long way in enhancing my cuddle experience.