This website has been totally corrupted by scammers and jokers. Don’t waste your time here.
I'm sorry about your experience :-( There is definitely a lot of variability depending on your location. Some days I feel like I'm one of the only genuine ones, but I know there must be others :-(
I do now realize that I failed to mention that of the many, unproductive attempts to find reliable and legitimate cuddlers (as opposed to fakes, flakes and escorts), I did manage to find two that are the real deal, and I highly recommend them:
Snugglebug201
And
IAmSophia.
Having been with both of them more than once, I can assure you will have a wonderful experience!!
But it’s “hit and miss” throughout much of the site. I’m guessing that with Craigslist and Backpages pulled down by the federal government, you should beware that escorts are looking for new forums on which to advertise their services. I have no problem with women who want to provide those services, but I wish they wouldn’t do so on this site.
Freddie
We feel the same way about men who come here and ask us to cuddle in lingerie, cuddle naked and ask us for sexual services. That's not what this site is about.
Doing better than me Georgie, I've not even received a reply back from anyone near me. If there are people providing sexual services on here, then they certainly hide it well. On other sites I've looked at it has seemed that as long as you don't actually use the words sex or blowjob you can pretty much offer whatever kind of "cuddles" you want. But if you've found 2 women that you had very good experiences with, then I would say just stick with them, and you won't have to worry about getting hooked.
@GeorgeT Please report them. We are very good at banning those who are here for the wrong reasons.
Hey,@GeorgeT, I'm sorry you guys feel that way about the fakes and flakes, but please don't give up. I am real, and genuine, and here, and available. I will always be kind and compassionate, but I need you to just keep the faith and be open to giving me and people like me who truely mean well, a chance; a chance to show you an acceptance so kind and loving that will change you. Please, let us help. ---Hugs, Kitten
The site may have quite a few bad apples but I thank @mark and @reurbo for being prompt on addressing any folks who are here other than for cuddling. this here is a very open and welcoming community and while I love that, these are things that come about with that. if the site was very much about screening folks and being very strict on who can be here (and I mean during signing up), the community here might be a very different one.
@stellarosass I agree about the site not being so strict with screening sign ups, giving them the benefit of the doubt is good as it can always be reported if they aren't doing right. Not everyone who signs up is familiar with this sort of thing and it may take some time to get acclimated to the community here. Being nit picky about joining would discourage people with passive curiosity. I signed up as an observer not knowing what I was getting into with this place and felt very welcomed from the start. Not all sites are like that. Even other cuddle sites seem to focus more on the business aspect of only being there to schedule appointments rather then the community aspect like this site does.
I agree. There are so many scammers here. The shutdown of Backpage has brought in the shady providers here.
I have very little expectations.
I agree about the site not being so strict with screening sign ups
On the professional side, I think we're rejecting around 80-90% of professional applications that come in. So from that perspective we're stricter than other websites in this industry. It seems many of them just blindly accept everyone.
Soon all Pros will be required to associate a payment card to their accounts. This will hopefully reduce some of the questionable applicants getting through the net. It will also act as a way of clearing out the inactive Pros here and those who don't take it seriously.
There are so many scammers here. The shutdown of Backpage has brought in the shady providers here.
There definitely was an impact here from that event. But those that get through don't survive here for long at all. We're banning accounts everyday and blocking entire networks (ASN) in the firewall when appropriate.
@Mark "We're rejecting around 80-90% of professional applications that come in"
What kinds of applications get rejected?
It's partly subjective and based on my intuition from experience. What I can say is we are more likely to accept applicants that write a good application text and where the photo portrays a reasonable level of professionalism.
There are pros with pictures that make me think they should be rejected :-/
@Mark that's what i figured! works well to keep it strict.