Do professional female cuddlers get aroused

Mrwest

I have been told it is completely natural and normal for a male to get aroused during cuddling is there any reason to be embarrassed if this happens ? I read If it happens you can take a break or change positions which will slow things down. With that said I was also wondering if a this ever happens to a female professional cuddler? And how does she deal with this.

MarvinNYC

Will be interesting to see what the female cuddlers / clients say.

They've already said.

https://cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/3359/arousal-during-cuddling/p1

Mrwest

Thanks but my question was does this ever happen to a female cuddler?

pmvines

I am sure it does bigger question is why are you asking? Any time I see grown adults with at least normal intellect asking about such basic questions about arousal and what not just seems more voyeuristic than knowledge seeking. You are an adult, how does any adult deal with sexual arousal? You either act or don't act on it. If you are seeing a paid cuddler or are the paid cuddler and get aroused, you don't act on it . If you are not paying someone to cuddle you and are attracted to each other and are both adults and there is consent what you do behind closed doors is your business. Just realize that's not the intent of the site. Just is hard to take it seriously when people ask about how to handle urges as though this is sex ed 101

MarvinNYC

So is there a list of approved questions people can ask?

pmvines

Just my thoughts on the matter Marvin. People can post about boners and oh my giodness what if I get turned on all they wish , and I can in turn post all I wish about how silly I think it is that a grown adult even requires an answer ?different strokes makes this site what it is. In my opinion seems more like a question asked for the sake of voyeurism in this case , wanting to hear about women getting turned on while cuddling. My thoughts, could be wrong, but even if that's the case , I can still post an incorrect assumption

Mrwest

I guess everyone is entitled to their own opinions and thank you marvinNYC. And I am a mature grown up and to be very clear I am not looking for any kind of sex from a cuddler. when cuddling many have talked about what happens when a man gets aroused and most know the answer and how to handle it. Let's face it a good cuddling experience can be sensual, intimate and feelings between 2 people do happen. My question was a male can not hide being aroused but a female can and I was curious if female cuddlers get aroused.

pmvines

I still find it amusing that one needs to ask women what they do when they get horny. Like I said , different strokes ...

Mrwest

I posed my question because I was curious about the female side of this as I said a female can hide it a male can't so I was hoping to hear the female side.
Your choice of the word amusing I find disrespectful.. amusing causing laughter or providing entertainment.
"such a likable, amusing man!"
synonyms: entertaining, funny, comical, humorous, lighthearted, jocular, witty, mirthful, hilarious, droll, diverting;

I think what's getting missed here is that we are trying to participate in an environment that supports "platonic" touch.
By nature, the question recognizes, and discusses a question of "sexual" nature, which defeats the purpose of focusing on the platonic. If people want to keep discussing this topic, they could find an audience that is more interested.

Mrwest

I understand cuddling is 100 percent platonic but it I common that things happen to men on many pots and cuddling rules so what is wrong with finding out viewpoints from female cuddlers

I'm sorry. I don't think anyone is buying that. I think it sounds too much like, "Tell me what it feels like when you are aroused with a client? What do you DO when you are aroused with a client". That might be a question you decide to ask, after you've met a cuddler and established a trust with them. I don't know what else to tell you but I think you'll have trouble-getting-traction with that line of questioning. Nothing personal, just not a topic that needs that much attention. Feel free to continue fishing, and missing the point. Peace.

Mrwest

We have freedom of speech and if you choose not to agree that's fine.

pmvines

Perhaps the fact that no women have responded is testament that they have no interest in giving a dissertation on their arousal or lack there of. Unlike the multitude of threads dedicated to men wanting attention for their erections, perhaps it just isn't a big enough deal for them to detail ?

CuddleStella

During a cuddle session or cuddle inquiry, a cuddle pro may practice the boundary of keeping off certain topics. Platonic or not as it may be, it's to ensure professionalism and clear communication between two participating parties. Open communication isn't always about being free to proceed on talking on just any certain topics or being able to get a answer to certain questions. When someone asks me about say, MY "personal love life" I let them know that I rather not discuss any personal topics as such. This is pretty much any therapist's approach. If it so fully engulfs you to know, the only reassurance a pro can give you is that there's the professional route to take here and that is "not to act on it" just like pros ask fellow cuddle partners to follow. To speak into further detail on this isn't conducive to what the site is here for. I hope this helps.

Mrwest

Thank you I respect your view and being a professional in answering the question. I asked the question for 2 reasons it's been addressed many times about males and was wondering about the other gender

pmvines

Reason there are so many threads about erections is due to so many men wanting to talk about erections. Women don't really see the need.

Females are human so I would assume, yes, some female Pro cuddler has been aroused at some point.

BlueIris

Female pro cuddlers are bots from an alien planet. They never get aroused.

CuddleStella

I would assume the change in position for the non-pro cuddle partner happens in case the professional cuddler does not find it okay to continue in the same position due to the other party's inability to ignore the arousal effect. for the pro, it's about keeping it professional. so you may never know and they are not in the ethical place to reveal that detail to you. though I do not know if any pro-cuddler would like to share the detail to begin with. it does seem very voyeuristic to share or have someone ask those type of questions since again, it's not conducive to any cuddle session. as long as she is not acting upon it, it is not something that needs to be discussed.

Mrwest

So it's OK to talk about it when it happens to a male which they say it's common and normal change positions or take a small break. Why do woman hide this we are all human even seems like some men are protecting woman on this issue a, few woman have addressed this I don't think they need men to speak for them

SnugglyBuggly

@stellarosass couldn’t have said it better myself!

PinkLipstick22

@BlueIris is correct. Women pro cuddlers are alien bots and, thus, never experience this issue.

The OP seems to be saying that their real complaint is that too many men are starting threads or PMing us complaining/asking about their own bodies. While the solutions seem obvious to us, many seem to want to see us type it all out over and over. This is the reason you see so many threads on this; there is a search function that potential new thread starters could use to see the previously answered exact same question. You are correct that it gets to be too much sometimes!
Starting this thread as a guise to complain about that is not a solution and is quite gross.

Mark

I'm closing this thread.

While this is an open forum and controversial topics are allowed, this doesn't seem to be going anywhere.