When you find a pro within your area that you would like to possibly book a session with, please remember your manners when contacting them.
A blunt “when are you available” as a first message would be fine if that were a general question about the hours and days I do sessions, but it’s not because that info is in my main profile. Without even an introduction the person wants to know my address and when they can come over...it makes for a lousy first contact.
I sometimes I get greeted worse than a salesperson or cashier does. It’s that blunt and abrupt message with no hi, or anything.
I do offer massages in addition to cuddling as it helps people relax more. I will be having you in my home, in my arms, touching and caressing you, talking and listening to you. So please remember that when you’re booking a pro, although it is a business, it’s even more so when you keep in mind the contact & personal attention given to every individual client that’s involved.
Cuddling is even more than massages, it’s closeness and caring. Wether I’m opening my home to a client or if I’m going to theirs, a trust needs to be built first. I fiercely believe in my clients right to privacy and so that they know they are safe with me and will not be judged.
Masseuses do massages, and yes you get touched, but sometimes even that is mechanical in nature. Not only do they get paid, but most expect tips. I, as a Pro cuddler would like the same amount of respect you would give to them. They’re making you feel good, and you pay them without complaining that they’re only in it for the money. Yet we as Pros, get accused of that exact thing, and we’re doing the same if not more for our clients, at least I am.
In fact, I think I am personally more invested in my clients than any masseuse is... and I don’t even expect a tip. I have contact with clients before and after sessions through chats, messages, video calls and texts. Yes, I’m getting paid, but a lot of hours of my time and feelings go into every session and client, before, during and afterwards. I give my clients a safe haven to relax and be open about whatever they need to. I’m a person to whom they can talk to when they feel they can’t express their feelings to coworkers, friends or family.
You pay a therapist to listen to you, you pay a masseuse to touch you. Both without complaint. I consider myself a bit of both. I am not in it only for the money.
Why should a pro cuddler be treated any differently?