https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/4127/please-respect-your-cuddle-buddy#latest
Even though this was originally closed due to a pair of trolls being trolls I think this is a good reminder to all of us. I would like to thank the OP for starting this thread and I'd also like to put on record myself that I have come to develop friendships with a few more experienced men on here that I will never meet or cuddle with but I still trust their opinions and find no reason as yet to distrust them. I appreciate the few who have exhibited protective behaviors with me since those men have been around here for a while, understand male behavior and have no reason to sway me one way or the other. Both @pmvines and @Wine66 have excellent points that bear reinforcing on occasion. Boundaries are legal rights that can be punished under local and federal law. Two consenting adults that go with the flow and potentially want skin to skin contact or something else is also just that; consensual and not breaking of boundaries.
Guys and girls, if you want cuddles, if you've taken the time and put in the effort to get to the cuddle stage you are probably interested in cuddling them again so don't eff it up by forcing things that both of you aren't comfortable with!
I for one had a traveler meet me two weeks ago and we had a lovely time but he was nervous because I was only his second non professional and he mentioned to me that the other enthusiast grabbed his package halfway through and asked him what he "really wanted". He wanted her hands back in safe territory! He made it very clear to me and I'll assume the professionals he met with that he was there just for cuddles and nothing sexual. He's coming back on Tuesday and comes to my area between once or twice a month, I look forward to developing a lovely consensual, cuddle relationship with him but also a great friendship as neither of us are looking for a romantic partner.
Respect boundaries, discourage trolls, sharks(gallowglass, you are missed), and boundary breakers. Or report them! It's hard enough finding a live body to cuddle with so don't expect too much too soon!
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