I really don’t understand what the deal is with the pics. I understand not having one for privacy reasons but having the other person ask multiple times and not sending one? To me that doesn’t make sense, if there’s communication back and forth and one person has a pic the other person should send one fairly soon. Whenever I contact somebody or if somebody contacts me I send them a couple of pics with my first message whether we are going to meet or not, I think is just the polite thing to do with members that have public profiles pics.