when you go to a counselor you lay on the couch or sit on the couch and you ventilate away. if your a talker like me . your whole hour sessions go by quick with no feedback. but with a cuddler you get instant results . i even have E.D. FROM BEING A WAR VETERAN . and cuddling still stirs up internally all feelings of being and feeling loved wanted respected and appreciated. in life family and people in general can take you for granted. BECAUSE THERE ARE EXTREME GIVERS LIKE ME AND EXTREME TAKERS INCLUDING FAMILY MEMBERS AND SIBLINGS AND FRIENDS. A CUDDLER WANTS NOTHING FROM YOU OTHER THAN TO CUDDLE AND MAKE YOU FEEL HUMAN . THANKS AND LOVE TO ALL CUDDLERS: