Boston area

purzelbaumday

I'm looking for a cuddle buddy, hopefully asexual, in the Eastern Massachusetts area. I was recently raped and am trying to overcome my aversion to human touch. I am asexual myself and want a cuddle buddy with no risk of it becoming sexual. I am looking for someone who will respect my boundaries and has no intention of cuddling to start a sexual relationship. I want everything to be consensual and safe. I am looking to feel safe and respected again. If you are comfortable with cuddling someone with my background (I may be triggered at one point and I would never blame a cuddle buddy who did not violate our boundaries), please message me. My rapist was male, so I am predominantly looking for people who identify as female, whether that was their gender assigned at birth or not. Thank you.

Hi how are you? I would be honored to have the opportunity to get to know you and help you through this difficult time. I was truly affected by your story. I appreciate your openness and honesty. I sent you a personal message and friend request. I would like to connect with you and hope that I am approaching you in a good way without overwhelming you. I learned a little about asexuality in a sexuality psychology course and I respect your strength and courage to overcome what happened to you. I hope to hear from you if you are still looking for a cuddler.