Cuddles for grieving

stacierheastacierhea
in General

I really don’t know to do but my fiancé took his life in a jail cell the other week and we have two BABIES. I wanted to spend my whole life wth that man and I’m desperately just wanting to be held and don’t really have the friends to do so. Any advice or suggestions on how to begin with this website. Thank you♥️

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  • RaindropSweetieRaindropSweetie

    Use the Cuddlers tab to search for available cuddlers in your area. Then, message them to see if you are compatible and able to have a cuddling session for emotional support.

  • NicNixNicNix

    I am so sorry for your loss! I hope you find a compatible cuddler and get the support you need to make it through this tough time.

  • CardiacKidCardiacKid

    Go slowly. You're emotionally vulnerable.

    Have plenty of conversation and a brief public meeting. Give preference to anyone with good karma. Good luck.

  • respectfulrespectful
    edited July 2019

    @stacierhea

    Any advice or suggestions on how to begin with this website

    It could be helpful to start with the Cuddling Discussions and Resources thread.

    Cuddling can be a very comforting and nurturing thing, but unfortunately it's important to watch out for your safety too, since there is a mixture of people here -- maybe spend some time getting to know people via messages before meeting for the first time.

  • gentlesnugglegentlesnuggle

    Hi stacierhea,
    Oh my.... I'm so sorry for your loss. That must be heartbreaking and tough to live through. I hope you know you have friends here who care. May some friends appear in your life to offer you support and tender care.
    Sincerely,
    GentleSnuggle

  • stacierheastacierhea

    Thankyou all for the safety concerns and advice. I’m just trying to open myself up a little bit.💕 maybe I’ll find a good buddy.

  • sanpedrocuddlersanpedrocuddler

    Grieving is always a difficult time. Healing touch, feelings, and meditation can begin to help us cope.

  • Joe_1Joe_1

    I am new to this site, and don’t have anything specifically helpful to share. Just know that I am thinking about you. I can’t imagine the shock and pain you’re feeling.

    Like has been shared before, people here care. Lean on that.

  • [Deleted User]mdx71 (deleted user)
    edited July 2019

    I'm sorry for your loss @stacierhea . Life is hard, but people do care. I lost my ex g/f and I guess in a way I use cuddling as a way to try to fill me back up.. Never worked on my side but hope it does for you.Take care of yourself. I agree with what someone else said, that meditation helps put it all into perspective. I know I was sort of trapped inside myself for a little while and medititation helped me break out. Breathing therapy worked for me too.

  • stacierheastacierhea

    You all are so super sweet. I just want to hug everyone who has responded. Thank you

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