Let's Talk About It
Do's : practice good mental and physical hygiene ask for permission for every touch Say what and how you feel Ask for what you want and need Say what works and doesn't work for you Be willing to try new things and engage your senses Be mindful of the humanity of the person you are with Be honest and transparent Give meaningful feedback and what can be done differently or better See cuddling as an experience and an opportunity to experience personal and spiritual growth overtime : learn to communicate better with others and be compassionate and loving to oneself. Don'ts Try to be defensive about what and how you feel Talk about your ex: issues and money worries Respond with one liners and flippant thoughts when someone speaks to you thoughtfully Say you're open to whatever but keep demanding to spoon all the time Say you are respectful of boundaries yet repeatedly ask to be in cuddle positions that clearly violate those boundaries.