Too busy to cuddle

mokissia

So I booked a client from another site, but I’ve had this a number of times before. He paid some travel fee upfront which was nice change so I knew he was serious. Drive 3.5 hrs one way to now only have session for 30 min. He kept getting phone calls and then up changed paid, told me the room is paid and I could stay the night, then left. Funny to say I feel frustrated because he didn’t get full benefit of being with me.
Guys I know you have jobs, businesses but if you book session turn the phone off, it’s hard to relax completely if phone keeps going ringing, beeping or whatever the sound. This is your time to just to relax and enjoy. Everyone needs downtime. You can not be your best self with out relaxing. I applaud him for being business oriented but don’t forget to simply breathe and relax. I’m in Elizabeth NJ currently.

pmvines

I have a friend who had something similar happen to her . Educated guess based on how things went was that the guy wanted more , and when it was clear that wouldn't happen , he became disinterested

At lest he didn’t tell you that you had to leave. He gave you the room to which you could have used for more cuddling or just used. I honestly think if he was looking for me and want just busy he would have asked you to leave. I’ve had the time of the month excuse and cut the session super short. Why schedule if your going through that. I mean it’s no surprise it’s been going on all your life. I’m just saying as pros and non pros have reasons so do customers.

mokissia

im Very grateful and he was very sweet and hope we get to cuddle again, so he can truly relax and enjoy.

You’re one of a few that are.

DonLonG

I have known people that couldn't relax unless they had their phone on. Whenever their battery ran out, or they were in a no service area, they would stress out not being able to think about anything else.

12 years ago I had an apartment in a building made out of brick and anyone with at&t or t-mobile carriers lost service in it. My girlfriend at the time hated being there and out of contact, and sleepovers were out of the question. She was always too preoccupied with thinking about messages she might be missing out on.

She had a roommate and 12 people living at her place, no phone service in mine. So I had to rent a motel down the street on the weekends so that she would be comfortable enough to spend alone time with her. A year later I found out that it was because she never broke up with her previous boyfriend, and juggling 2 others as well.