I am interested in hearing from pros and non-pros.
For pros, how are you able to create and hold a safe, intimate, platonic vibe and space almost instantaneously and independent of the client’s personality, energy, and vibe?
For non pros, how are you able to assess relative compatibility with a potential cuddler in a meet and greet? Are there ways of assessing compatibility online?
I know I like having control, but I also don’t want to waste people’s time. And, I am in awe of what pros do to create that compatibility seemingly out of thin air, which makes me wonder if I’m just full of s#^t: anyone can be compatible if I just make it about serving the other person. That sounds true to me. Not sure what do with that though. I am looking for that cuddle session in which I can be still and breathe and just feel the warmth of the other person and take them in through several senses, which relaxes me like nothing else. I wonder if pros take in good feelings for themselves too in a session. I am trying to navigate and understand this new world. Thanks in advance for any wisdom you care to share.