For me, cuddling is a therapeutic kind-of-thing, like visiting a mental-health counselor, a physical or massage therapist, personal trainer, or doing yoga. Essentially, cuddling uniquely allows me to be vulnerable I ways I wouldn't in a romantic relationship. So I joined the "Platonic-Cuddle-Community" for therapeutic purposes and not social per se', even though I respect that cuddling carries a social focus for many here, for varying reasons.
More often than not, I limit my cuddling to professionals with some type of holistic learning e.g., Reiki, Yoga, Massage or Healthcare-training. I've found professional cuddlers with this background to be intuitive healers with an understanding of how to share their life-force/love of their fellow human-beings -- in a healing, nurturing, and most importantly, platonic way.
In my more successful cuddles, the trained healers I speak of understand the nuances of intimacy vs romance and sensuality vs sexualiity and so on. And while I have cuddled with "professionals" without this background, I've generally found those sessions less-fulfilling with respect to accepting or nurturing the venerability I allow in myself in order to obtain the healing and rejuvenation I seek. Suffice it to say they just don't get it on the level of those I've encounter with holistic and healthcare backgrounds.
I'm curious how others in the community view this?