I have sent friend requests to the members in my area,but got no replies. The last time they visited this site was a year ago or more. I am married,and cuddle deprived. On the rare occasion my wife agrees to cuddle, it is only for 15 minutes or less. We have discussed this many times, but it is "boring"to her. She prefers the TV or her Nintendo DS to fulfill her needs of relaxation after work. I once told her straight out that I feel alone sitting next to her sometimes,but she needs to play on the Nintendo DS to unwind from
her stressful job. At least we do take walks together when the weather is nice. I have had to learn to accept that "it is what it is".