My time here seems to have been a waste. Maybe it’s where I live. Not sure. But it was not beneficial for me.
@JLD - it takes time. There's no magic formula. Be real, polite, and honest. Be aware some may not respond without a pic in your profile, so consider unlocking for those that you do message. Expand your search/location, try the various filters. Some have success if they're willing or regularly travel on business.
Another option is to hire a pro if that's in your budget.
Best wishes.
Being married and also not having a pic may be a barrier for you, as well as location perhaps? You have only been on since January. It is not an immediate thing, rarely is.
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@LucidDreams84 You're the one who needs to grow up. Not everyone's relationship has the same terms that you want them to. Let JLD and his wife decide what is right for them.
@JLD There just aren't many non-pro women on the site. Among people within 50 miles of Olathe who are non-pros who've been online in the last week, there are
These are actually better odds than in most areas; often there are 10x or 15x as many men as women. Still, the odds are against you. Most men on here never find a non-pro cuddle buddy. I recommend you try one or more of these three options:
@jld I actually already posted this in another thread but I think the video is relevant. Cuddling is very therapeutic even for married people as long as you keep it professional. I have seen some professionals from social workers to doctors single or married get into big trouble because they formed dual relationships with their patients. It can be just as easy on this site. Part of growing up is being open and dealing with your issues and not bottling everything up. The physiology behind touch is so amazing, no one should be deprived of nurturing human contact. Maybe you should learn to become a pro and advertise, maybe like-minded will come to you; unless you do outcall of course, hehe ☺
@CelestialTouch that's an interesting idea.
Thanks everyone, well almost everyone, for the advice. I be patient and keep trying. Thought I had made a contact and its fallen off without any explanation. I will explore the local pros too.
Not sure what the one person said, but it is probably better.