Okay... I'm still formulating the concept in my mind/life, but in all of this "shelter-at-home" time, it's sort of become clear that I've allowed people into my life/experience who are more than willing to dump their problems onto me, seeking wisdom or a new perspective, while being TOTALLY UNWILLING to reciprocate that sharing or caring.
It's not often that I need it, but on the occasions when I'd simply like to be "heard," they're either too busy, not answering, or frankly, acting like my "little issues" are somehow not worth bothering with or hearing..
Question: Have you ever dealt with people like this? Did you feel, eventually, that you were laying out more of an investment in them than they were willing to lay out for you? What did you do about it?
The longer this isolation lasts, the more I realize that I'm no longer willing to play the role of "Scapegoat" or "Sin Eater" for those who seem to have become accustomed to using my energy as a recharge.. I figure, if I've done the work to have a fat, healthy supply, why should I allow others---who are NEVER WILLING TO "BE THERE" FOR ME--- to benefit from the energy work I've done? Isn't it supposed to be "give AND take"???
Insight, please?
Imajen