Since we’re going through a pandemic and finding people to cuddle up with can be tricky (even when not in a pandemic) I thought I’d start a thread on other means of getting some of the benefits we miss out on with a lack of contact.
One aspect of this is stimulating our vagal tone. It’s the stimulation of the largest nerve in our body, there’s research on many health and mental health being it’s that go along with it, and it’s something that happens through interacting with others and massage. Fortunately there are other ways of doing this. Singing, exposure to cold, probiotics, and deep breathing are some of them. So if you hum and eat yogurt in a cold shower you’re really doing yourself some good... on a side note, if you’re lonely, yogurt has billions of living organisms. Acidophilus is even able to survive the whole trip through your digestive system. It’s kinda like a cuddle on your insides...
Anyway here’s a link for stimulating your vagus nerve.
https://sass.uottawa.ca/sites/sass.uottawa.ca/files/how_to_stimulate_your_vagus_nerve_for_better_mental_health_1.pdf
Another thing we get from cuddling is oxytocin is shown to reduce stress among other things. Making and listening to music and having meaningful conversations with people (including active listening), yoga and meditation are some of the alternatives on this list.
https://www.healthline.com/health/how-to-increase-oxytocin
Of course then when I look this stuff up I find an article that includes possible negative effects of oxytocin...
https://bebrainfit.com/increase-oxytocin/
Interesting...
Anyway, it seems petting animals is a great substitute for the benefits of cuddling as well. I wonder if petting plants and laying in grass would help too... I feel like there’s stuff about getting enough sunlight that can be helpful too but I don’t have the research at my fingertips and am starting to feel lazy.
Any other methods/tips for self managing what we miss from cuddling?