I don’t know how to search the forum on my phone but what does being suspended/paused mean?
If your phone is anything like mine, the search bar ought to be at the very bottom of the forum page. Just go to "General," then scroll down and keep scrolling till you hit the bottom! To answer your more explicit question, allow me to quote @SoulcuddlerZ:
"Paused and Suspended are the same - these are imposed by the moderation team or automatically (failed booking fee charges). Deactivated and Muted are imposed by the member."
Thanks @DarrenWalker ... followup: Does that probably mean they did something not good? lol
Basically means that the member was asking 'no no' questions
For men usually means inappropriate behavior for women usually means untagged pro .
I've heard of female pros being suspended for trying to circumvent the fee they're supposed to pay the site.
@CuddleMeLater Very common. I have seen countless untagged pros.
@FunCartel Indeed, but that's not exactly what I meant. I mean a person who is tagged as a pro, but who, when someone messages, tries to move the conversation off site so as not to book through the site and pay a fee.
It was a female who contact me about a cuddle yesterday afternoon for today. Her profile said she was straight and she asked me nothing inappropriate. Then when I looked later, she was paused. So...
@SuperSnuggler2 Must have been something they did to someone else.
@geoff1000 I certainly didn't report her... lol
@SuperSnuggler2 From Mark's post here I think "paused" is more of an innocent thing than "suspended".