What's your favorite thing to do before starting to cuddle
Eat shrooms and count down from 100 to 1 in random order while looking at Benjamin Moore paint samples of bright colors.
Seriously though...I work out, nap then shower.
The fiction and the truth both have their pros and cons.
I don't know that I'd call it a favorite... But last time I found myself thoroughly amused by the trashed state of my room from "noping" nearly every garment I considered wearing before shuffling through the mess with what I had picked out in the first place. What a spaz! Lol!
I get the space set up in a really lovely way. Lighting, coziness, music. I also have been known to make a snack from time to time - chai, cookies were two that were fun. I also choose something cozy to wear. And I open the windows to let fresh air in and then close them and warm the place back up.
Make sure the bedding is fresh, home is warm, candles and soft music.
Put a lofi hip-hop livestream on my phone, connected to my Bluetooth speaker.