For over a year, my cuddler and I went from being provider/client to close friends. In fact, the last time we were together, we didn't cuddle but I took her to her first baseball game. We had a wonderful time, one that she'll never forget.
The pandemic kept us apart, but I was looking forward to seeing her again once this crisis ends. We kept in contact with each other on Facebook and Instagram and I noticed that she was doing a lot of traveling with family and friends. What I didn't know until this weekend is that my cuddler got married in May. This revelation blindsided me and my emotions came down on me all at once. Mind you, I knew that she was marriage-minded and wanted to start a family. I would never stand in the way of her happiness. But should she have let me know a few months ago to let me mentally prepare for the end of our cuddling relationship?