Do you meet a person who wants to cuddle immediately or do you get to know them a little first?

I am new to this website and have gotten a few requests so far but most people want to meet immediately. I am not comfortable with that so I prefer to get to know them a bit first. Does anyone here meet people immediately without really knowing them first? And if you do that, do you meet in a public place or at the person's home?

All the professionals that I have ever cuddled meet immediately. There is no time to get to know someone. This isn't a dating website.

Hi Tre. I personally like to talk to the person for a bit first, get a feel for then, learn something about them before meeting. I assume you are talking about meeting someone that, like us, is NOT a "professional". Really. when meeting anyone, the important thing is to proceed at your own pace and comfort level. If the person is not willing to take that time to create a sense of familiarity and comfort, do you really want to cuddle with them? I certainly wouldn't; if you look at my profile you will see that I say something to that effect.

You should first meet where you feel comfortable. Again, I want to meet before actually cuddling. Everyone is different, of course.  Never allow yourself to be pushed or persuaded into something that you are not comfortable with.

You will get lots of advice in the forums. Use your commonsense and take away what seems helpful to you .

Welcome and good luck!

I am so sorry, just looked and see that you listed yourself as a professional? That may be a different cup of tea. I hope that some of the women that identify as professional come on to answer your question.

@snugglesymmetry, the website doesn't vet people so we have to make the decisions ourselves. How do you make that decision if you just meet people without knowing anything about them at all? And when you do this, do you meet them at their place? 

Thanks @Arielle

@Tre When meeting a non professional by all means be safe. First get to know them through messages. Meet in a coffee shop and decide if you want to proceed from there. I was referring to professional cuddling only.

willmott2k10

Tre, if you weren't a professional I would definitely say get to know people first, if I'm travelling a significant distance to meet someone for the first time then I feel more at ease if I at least know some stuff about them, the same can probably be said for those I'm meeting. However, since you're a professional I don't know what to suggest, I think though you should be prepared for most people that message you to want to meet you without that initial getting to know each other, at the end of the day people class themselves as pros on here to make money so they'll probably be under the impression you're okay with doing that with that in mind. Just don't do anything you're not comfortable with would be my advice I guess.

Ok Thanks everyone! When I signed up, I was automatically listed as professional so I am not sure how that works but I wouldn't call myself a professional since I have never done this before. I probably will need to let them know I am not someone who does this regularly. I will speak to the admins. Thanks for the tips!

caringtouch

Welcome here @Tre, sounds like you are just another person who wants a cuddle buddy like most of us. That is significantly different then working as a professional cuddled. By all means, as non proffessional, take your time and feel the person out. Don't be pushed and public meetings will be fine with genuine cuddlers. There are amazing people on here wishing for a cuddle buddy as well as others with very different agenda, be aware. Lots of times you will get a feel for what the other persons motives are with messaging for several days or weeks. If you can't get your profile changed, just delete it and start over, as a non professional, you will get a different type of profile that is set up for exchanging and inviting regular messages.

Here is a saftey tip used by many pros as well as others. When you agree to meet someone, let someone know where you will be and when and for how long, text them when you first meet the person and then again imediately after parting with your cuddler. Have a prearrainged plan for the event that something is not right or you don't text back at the prearraigned times. Here is a commonly used plan, if you don't respond back within the set time frame, say within 30 min of agreed time then they notify the police with your info and agreed meeting place. Don't let your cuddler know the details but inform them before meeting that there is an automatic safety plan in place that will initiate on its own should there be any trouble.

Happy and safe cuddling!

Ok thanks so much.

Arielle, I'm of the same mindset as you. Definitely feel more comfortable chatting back and forth a bit and get an idea of their personality type. I kind of view it the same way as if I were dating someone. You talk and go out in public a few times to see whether or not you think the courtship has potential and if you'd like to pursue further.

I have had great cuddle sessions with clients who were like are you free for a session in the next day or two I say yes we set a time I give them the address bam cuddle session and it has always gone just fine

50statecuddlr

Every cuddle date I have had went from "hey. how are you?" to cuddling in about 10 minutes. the last cuddle date i had went a little different......On 8-20-2016 I met emissary2ornj at mcdonalds for a pre-cuddle date. A few hours later we were happily married!!!! Truly love at first site. We both now have a lifetime cuddle partner in each other.