@DarrenWalker I understood your position and thoughts about the benefits of tellings others of the good that we have done. My last comments to you had to do with you pressing FlyingToaster to share his, after he clearly shared his personal reasons for not wanting to. You insisted that while he might not want to, others might benefit from it. Again, no harm in sharing your view, but since it was directed at someone who had already said,"Thanks, no," why direct remarks toward him?
Embarrassingly, @DrCuddleBug: because I was at work, distracted (shouldn't have been posting at all), and switched from talking to just FlyingToaster to addressing everyone without indicating that that's what I'd done.
"Well," I should've said, "while you, random forum-goer, may (like FlyingToaster) be uncomfortable with sharing...."
But I didn't. My bad.