Dr. Frankenstein’s Cuddle Monster

Ok ladies, here is a chance to descriptively construct the ideal male cuddler. Please name three human characteristics or traits that you would stuff into a prospective male cuddler. They can be classical ones like chiseled physique, pretty eyes, or they can be more subtle like possessing empathy, a capacity for listening, or intellect. Or they can be fun like a sense of humor, a great dancer or an intuitive masseuse. But you can only have three.

Guys same thing with the women—pick three characteristics that you cherish the most.

If you are not picky about gender or are a same sex cuddler, pick the gender and name three characteristics. Once again—only three.

Hopefully this will be fun.

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  • edited December 2020

    Femmes: soft, nurturing, gentle

    Mascs: Silly, non-boundary pushing, active cuddler

    I'm a rule breaker, I need to describe them separately 😋😋

  • Empathetic, effective communication, and respectful. Applies to everyone.

  • [Deleted User]CuddleMeLater (deleted user)

    In practice often what winds up mattering the most to me are characteristics like "punctual" or "responds to messages in less than a week" or "doesn't steal from me."

    But if we can take that basic stuff as a given, here are a few things I like (for women):
    1. active cuddling - doesn't just lie there; actually touches me.
    2. intuitive masseuse - you used this phrase; I've never thought of that phrase. This is not crucial, but some people really have a good idea of where I would like to be touched or massaged, and it's really nice.
    3. good listener.

    There are other characteristics I like and could potentially list, but I don't feel the need to because most women I've cuddled have them.

  • @CuddleMeLater You used the term intuitive masseuse in the sense I meant as well. Just had a session last night and the karma she left is evident. She figured out that I not only like my neck massaged but where the base of the neck meets the shoulder blades. I went Gumby because of that.

  • Nurturing, good conversationalist, enthusiastic masseuse!

    I guess that goes for either gender :) though I haven’t had any experiences with female cuddlers yet...

  • wholesome/integrous, emotionally mature, sense of humor

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