I have grouped people into 4 categories in my head in an effort to simplify this, not to offend: Enthusiast female; Enthusiast male; Professional female; Professional male.
What are the most important needs you want met when cuddling?
Perhaps it's also relief from things like loneliness, anxiety, loss or heartbreak?
Exactly @TouchSanctuary ! Thank goodness for comments
The feeling of being wanted and appreciated is what I got out of alot of my clients. And I LOVE that I can provide that for them!
That’s a big one for me @pookiebby ! I want to feel wanted.
@ChibiShema I put other because I couldn’t see Respect of boundaries. Cleanliness is a huge one but respect is top priority for me.
@Sheena123 thank you. These are the things I want to know!
I want fear to be struck into my heart.
@UltimateChungus fear for your life or fear of falling in love with them? There are as many types of fear as there are types of love.
@ChibiShema: Oh, he likes to be in fear for his life.
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@pookiebby nailed it
@DarrenWalker what on earth are you doing to your poor roommate over there ?
@pmvines
Nothing! I'm treated well! I swear!
Room mates?
@ChibiShema
Nah. We live at the same apartment complex, but in different buildings.
That is the perfect cuddle opportunity right there. But none of my business
Lot of good options on that list there, ChibiShema. Obviously it's much to complex to reduce to a list of click buttons, but still .... I clicked the Touch one.
On reflection, perhaps for me it is the sense of being accepted. The other person is saying, I accept you so much that I'm willing to cuddle you, to be almost as close as its possible to be. And to do so not only physically, but also emotionally. That sense of being accepted by one person, who stands as an avatar for the world, is very important.
Touch is the top answer to the poll, which is what I would expect. However, if you think that physical touch is truly the most important thing about cuddling, then you have completely missed the point.
@CuddleDuncan i always appreciate your thoughtfulness. Thank you again
having both and/or all participant’s personal and physcial boundaries respected and obliged.